04/03/14

Listed below are comments posted to Jarod's Guestbook in 2004

Name:

Jim - Jarod's Dad

Date:

31 Dec 2004

Time:

23:36:12

Comments

A new year comes, another year goes, but all we wait for the time we are together again. We miss and love you, Dad

Name:

Jillian Bennett

Date:

30 Dec 2004

Time:

22:13:04

Comments

Today was super hard at swim practice and ... then we had to clean at dads like im sure at every ones house ... and we saw a movie at the movie theatre. What makes me sad is that the NEW star Wars is coming out and i wish you were here to see it ... im startung to get sick seeing everyone so happy i have such a negative outlook on life and i am trying to cope... you give me hope that i can live life to the fullest at a young age or and old age liek you did. your big sis, Jillian*

Name:

Cherylee Norris

Date:

27 Dec 2004

Time:

17:56:17

Comments

I do not know you personally. I have shared your grief and prayed for you and your family. I was so touched by your wish list that through my tears I felt I needed to write to you. I can not imagine the loss of a child. My heart breaks for you and your family. Your son seemed like a great kid with everything to live for. I know that it probably doesn't help to hear how he is in the Fathers arms because we want him to be in ours. One day you will see him again and I'm sure you will be joyous. I pray for God's blessing and comfort for you this year. I pray He will make your sadness joyful and your tears, tears of happiness. I will be praying for you, but you need to know that God is the only person who can help and change you. It is ok to cry, miss him, even want him here with you. God understands. But knowing your 6 year old is in heaven with the father is a blessing. May God bless you in 2005.

Name:

Dad

Date:

25 Dec 2004

Time:

21:02:00

Comments

Merry Christmas buddy, I love you.

Name:

RM

Date:

25 Dec 2004

Time:

09:24:52

Comments

Merry Christmas Jarod!

Name:

Jillian Bennett

Date:

25 Dec 2004

Time:

09:21:25

Comments

Jarod i love you and miss you bunches Thanx 4 the snow and by the way hope you are having a christmas feast with God nad all the angels. Merry Christmas BABY! *Jillian*

Name:

Ben Schiller

Date:

25 Dec 2004

Time:

00:44:05

Comments

I can not imagine the pain caused from the loss of a child or sibling, but know that you are in my prayers. Jillian, I meet you often and it is only now that I realise the uncanny resemblance between you and Jarod. If he had half the heart you show everday, he truely must have been a great brother.

Name:

Kamerons Mother

Date:

24 Dec 2004

Time:

11:14:25

Comments

I am a mother who also knows your pain. I lost my beautiful healthy 15 yr. old boy on Sept 13 04. He also was here one second and gone the next. He loved life and lived large everyday. He loved children and had a little brother of his own. This year his little brother does not get him christmas morning, but Jarod does. God bless you and your family this christmas, and always.....

Name:

Judy Stoll

Date:

23 Dec 2004

Time:

19:05:10

Comments

Jarod- Hey buddy, I miss you a lot. I wanted to say thank you though, for keeping me snowed in my house :) you've made me realize how nice it is just to be able to be with my family. I haven't been around them much :-/ I've mostly been caught up in my own life, and only thinking of myself. I discovered this a few days ago, and then you snowed us in.. I think you heard me thinking to myself and you gave me a chance to spend time with my family and know that at this point in my life, I just want to be with them. Thank you so much. I love you and I miss you. I'll never forget our movies and popcorn... and I'll never forget our wrestling between You, me, Jillian, and Jacob. We can wrestle again in Heaven and sit and eat popcorn and watch movies, You, me, Jillian, and Jacob. Just like old times :) Miss you Jarod and Love you bundles ;) -Judy

Name:

Collete Mitcham

Date:

23 Dec 2004

Time:

18:47:05

Comments

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this holiday season. May you find peace. Collete Mitcham

Name:

haley c.

Date:

23 Dec 2004

Time:

17:11:05

Comments

Christmas is in two days and im thinking about u guys and how u must be dealing with ur second christmas without Jarod. i miss him but i know not as much as u guys. im am praying for u.

Name:

Debbie VanLandingham

Date:

23 Dec 2004

Time:

15:37:53

Comments

I wanted to say I am so sorry for the pain that we have to endure during this most Holy time of the year. I know our boys are safe now. They do not have to hurt any more. Jarod went way too soon. I thought that cup was amzaing. I also wanted to thank Jamie for signing Brian's guest book. You are so sweet. It means a lot to me that you signed it, not once...but twice. It is nice to know that our loved ones will always be remembered. Even thought I didn't know Jarod...I will always remember him because it was such a freak accident that ended his sweet little life. I pray that we can all have the best possible Christmas that we can. My prayers are with you and your family. Love, Debbie

Name:

Katie Fine

Date:

23 Dec 2004

Time:

12:11:28

Comments

Thank you to Jarod for showing us how life is supposed to be lived, and for teaching us about what is important, especially at this time of year when all the hustle and bustle overshadow the true meaning of Christmas, and the importance of spending our time with those we love. And thank you to Jim and Jenny for keeping the faith through a time when so many would question God's plan. It is a lesson to us all about the importance of believing in God and opening ourselves to accept his mercy and help in such difficult times when we surely would not survive without our faith. May God continue to bless Jarod's family and may Jarod enjoy many spectacular Christmases in his heavenly home!

Name:

MLJ

Date:

22 Dec 2004

Time:

23:35:15

Comments

One of my favorite versus in the Bible is found in 2 Peter, it says that one day with the Lord is like a thousand years and a thousand years is like a day. Even if we live another 100 years, when we get to Heaven only two minutes will have passed in earthly time. This means that our precious loved ones who are already there will have had only a few moments without us. Isn't that blessed assurance something to rejoice about? I am so happy that God gave his only son, Jesus Christ, so that we may have the promise of eternity. As we begin to celebrate the birth of our Savior, I pray that God's peace be with you now and always.

Name:

Jillian Bennett

Date:

22 Dec 2004

Time:

15:55:35

Comments

Snow day Jarod!!!yeah wish u were here to havea snow ball fight cuz if u were here you would be 7 years old finally and would have a lot of fun. Wishing u were here...Thanks 4 answering my prayer! *Jillian*

Name:

Jennifer Turns

Date:

22 Dec 2004

Time:

15:54:19

Comments

I was very touched by Jarods story on Newscenter 6 the other night. Now, I worry about my son returning to school after the break. I know his principal very well, and will be having a sit down with her to see if I can make some changes or at least some suggestions regarding the dangers of the lunch room tables. I am truly sorry for your loss and pray that you and your husband find peace from this terrible tragedy.

Name:

Jennifer

Date:

21 Dec 2004

Time:

23:41:28

Comments

Jim, Wow...your "Wish List" left me speechless yet inside I was just thinking "yes!!! Everything I have felt like saying, but didn't want to offend others. You see, I too, lost a son June 1st, 2003. Although are stories are quite different, the pain of losing your child is excruciating, undefining, and unbearable, not matter how much time has passed. My husband and I lost our 2nd born son, Max, when he was 2 1/2 days old. Somehow it doesn't seem fit for me to say I know how you feel simply because of how our boys died. Yet, I have empathy, know the grief, the pain of your loss. I know others try to help with their words, stories (like I just briefly did), but most of the time, I want others to keep their stories to themself, to let me live my own story without having to carry the grief of others...yet, this seems so selfish, but bitterly honest. Your "wish list" rang so true, and you spoke so honestly from your broken soul. Thank you for speaking words I have had a hard time struggling to say to friends, family, colleagues, and even strangers, especially strangers, when they see me with my two living sons and ask if there are any more... I am proud of my 3 sons, Conner (5 1/2), Max - our 2nd born, and now our 3rd lil one, Owen, almost 5 months old. The ironic part of all this, if I can say ironic but it is more sad though, we are actually neighbors...I live at 460 Silverwood Farms Dr. I have prayed for your Jarod, as I pray for the Aylors (across the street from me-God Bless Katie), I pray for the Cecil's (God Bless Luke) and pray for my Max....praying these children of God will recognize us, their moms and dads, their brothers and sisters...know us when we enter life with Christ, pray our children, who live with our Lord, will always know we love them and miss them so dearly much. It is hard to be seperated from your children for a day or two, or a week or a month, but now we have to be seperated for a lifetime....but I have comfort knowing Max lives in our hearts, in his big brother's smile when Conner talks of Max, and in his new baby brothers smile. Jarod lives on, his legacy is carried on by his sister and brother, by his parents... My wish for you...May you, your surviving children, Jenny, extended family find a bit more healing this season, this upcoming new year...you'll find someday, you cannot cry everyday. I have to believe my Max prefers to see his mommy happy, his daddy and brothers happy...I cannot cry everyday anymore...when I think of Max, I smile, for he has paved the road to Heaven for me, for his family...what a powerful thing for my baby boy to do for his family. Heartfelt prayers and love are sent your way from just around the corner....Jennifer Templin

Name:

Jana DiDomenico

Date:

21 Dec 2004

Time:

22:11:39

Comments

I have read your stories about your Jarod and have cried along with you. We saw about jarod's law on the news last night. We also have a Jarod, born in 1997, and also have the same type tables in the school that I work in as a teacher where Jarod is in grade one. It breaks my heart to read your stories, and because of the ages and spelling of the name of our boys, I can feel the pain you would have felt. I will check into the safety of our tables since seeing and reading the law. May God Bless your work, and your Jarod. Jana

Name:

Tonya Pretty

Date:

21 Dec 2004

Time:

14:36:40

Comments

My Heart and Prayers are with your family. I have a 6 year old daughter in the Oak Hills School District. If you need any signatures please let me know. I can get a ton. Tonya Pretty terryleechevrolet@fuse.net

Name:

Judy

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

23:58:52

Comments

From across the other side of the globe, I sit here reading and looking through your website. I cannot imagine what the family must feel. I'm a Mum to a 13 year old girl and an 11 year old boy and having almost lost my son when he was 2 - I remember that pain. Thankfully it wasn't his time and he has grown to be strong and healthy and also has a love of bugs! Jarod is the most beautiful little boy - what an impish smile and he looks like mischief waiting for a place to happen! To Jarod's dad, your dedication and website are amazing. Jarod's brother and sister are to be commended for their love of the little guy. We are here in Australia, crying tears for a little boy we never knew, but one obviously so special. Another Angel - and what an angel he is...

Name:

Mary

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

23:00:47

Comments

I heard about your story on the news tonight, I am so sorry for your loss, I have a six year old in Elementary school,and it made me stop and think,my gosh, I never thought something like that could happen. I pray that your law passes, your family will be in our prayers. God Bless.

Name:

Mike Davis

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

22:58:53

Comments

This is a good law. It is a shame that it took the death of a beautiful child to bring to the surface the dangers all kids are exposed to. This accident has happened before without serious injury, nobody paid attention till a child was killed. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I thank you for your efforts in protecting all children in our schools. You have my full support. God Bless You.

Name:

Destiny

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

22:42:52

Comments

The death of your son Jarod has really touched my heart. I hope your law passes so this doesn't happen to others. Your family is in my prayers.

Name:

Natalie

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

22:38:56

Comments

hello family of jarod i really am sad about jarod's death i wish you all good luck. im really sorry about your loss

Name:

PAT FINCEL

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

22:29:12

Comments

HEY JENNY AN FAMILY ITS HARD TO BELIEVE A YEAR HAS GONE BY MY HEART AN MY PRAYERS OUR WITH YOU .

Name:

Kimberly Murray

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

20:22:03

Comments

I am truly sorry for your loss of such a wonderful young man. I am Mom to a five year old boy myself name Jaylen and I cannot image the pain you go through daily. I pray for Jarod and I encourage you to keep fighting for a change in the law. Your son didn't have to die and laws need to be changed. Thank you also for a beautiful website.

Name:

Kelly Moore

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

18:32:36

Comments

I think that "we" as parents are responsible for keeping our children as safe as possible. It is our place to see to it that these tables be removed and new ones replaced.

Name:

MRS. FRIEDMAN, IN Florida

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

17:45:43

Comments

To the Bennett family, Don't let one person's cruel words deter you from celebrating your little one's life and working hard to prevent another tragedy. Thank you so much for sharing this website with others! Your boy was adorable and as a teacher I can say that I would have loved to have known him.I pray that you keep up your strength through this difficult time. You have a wonderful family and during the holidays you will gather even more strength from each other. G-d Bless you.

Name:

Sydney Bartlett

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

17:45:04

Comments

Hey~ Im Sydney and Im sixteen years old, and I just heard about this website on the news, and I just wanted to check it out. And I think its a great thing for the website, and what you guys are doing is great, with the law and everything. In deep beleif, I believe my grandma is up there with him. She had grand children about his age, so Im sure he is doing great! But I send all my love and care to you and your family! ~Mount Gilead, Ohio.

Name:

lebanon ohio

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

17:41:42

Comments

wow you have such a lovely site set up for Jarod. although i do not know the last person that typed in a comment...i apologize for her. sometimes people make judgments and do not know the circumstances . i support your effort on keeping other children safe.

Name:

Betsy

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

16:22:48

Comments

Today, I spent an hour looking through the many pictures of Jarod-how loved he was, what a wonderful life he had. It is clear that he was the center of your lives. I can only imagine the pain. I will keep you in my prayers. Tonight, because of Jarod, I will hug my sons a little tighter. It is awful that your great loss has to serve as a reminder to others of the precious value life has. I wish you peace, I will think of you often during the holiday season. God bless your family.

Name:

Linda Broderick

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

15:32:24

Comments

Your story has touched my heart. My daughter who is 7 years old also attends an After School Program. Thank you for the concern you are showing by the actions you are taking! Thank you for the love you have shown Jarod and the love you are showing to others by your actions! You will forever be in my heart and in my prayers!

Name:

Tracey Jones

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

14:12:30

Comments

thank you for allowing to read your stories, see your pictures and for a short period be in your life thru your web page. Jarod looks like he was a boy full of mischief and happiness. I wish more children would have those traits.

Name:

Jillian

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

12:59:08

Comments

I have never met any of you but this story has touched my heart so much because I could never imagine losing someone to such a terrible thing. This story brought tears to my eyes and Jarod reminds me so much of my little brother. Im not sure what I would do without him. Keep your heads up and know that we will all be praying for you.

Name:

rainy bishop

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

11:47:09

Comments

your in my prayers

Name:

sharon clark (florence,ky)

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

11:45:17

Comments

your in my thoughts and prayers.

Name:

Nancy Harris

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

11:26:30

Comments

God bless you! Keep looking up. :) Even though we don't understand, I guess God needs little angels in heaven. Stay encouraged. Thank you for your efforts to help protect other children. God Bless.

Name:

KIMBERLY WOODS

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

10:00:30

Comments

I NEVER KNEW ANY OF YOU, BUT I JUST WANT TO SAY I AM SO SORRY TO ALL OF YOU. I HAVE THREE CHILDREN MYSELF AND THEY ARE THE AIR THAT I BREATHE. I READ THROUGH YOUR WHOLE EMAIL AND LOOKED AT HIS BEAUTIFUL LITTLE FACE. HE IS BEAUTIFUL. I SIT HERE AT WORK WITH TEARS WELLED IN MY EYES. IM JUST SO SORRY YOU HAVE HAD TO ENDURE THIS TYPE OF PAIN. I WILL THINK OF YOUR FAMILY FROM HERE ON OUT AND YOU WILL ALL BE IN MY HEART AND PRAYERS. HE REMINDS ME SO MUCH OF MY BOY. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU. I HOPE YOU CAN HAVE A HAPPY HOLIDAY. DAILY I TELL MY KIDS WHAT THEY MEAN TO ME. KEEP THE WEBSITE UP. ITS TRULY A WONDERFUL THING. GOD LOVE ALL OF YOU. JAROD WAS A TRUE BLESSING. KIMBERLY WOODS (HAMILTON, OHIO)

Name:

Theresa Sterling

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

09:02:50

Comments

Jarod, We've never met but just looking at your pictures and reading the stories I know you must have been a marvelous little boy. You are in heaven now. May you rest in peace until the day you are ultimately joined again with your family. God bless you all! Theresa

Name:

Type your name here

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

08:59:44

Comments

I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT WE ARE ,AND HAVE BEEN, PRAYING FOR YOU ALL. JAROD WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN BUT HE WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED.

Name:

Linda

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

08:55:25

Comments

I am sorry I did not know Jarod. You were blessed with a very beautiful child. His eyes portray joy and tell the story of a happy, although brief life. Jarod passed on my son's birthday, and I thought of him yesterday. I know it will take time, but I pray that the time will come that you, like me, will come to December 19 and celebrate your son's life without tears. God bless you - I know he has blessed Jarod.

Name:

Anni Gibson

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

07:58:58

Comments

Dear Jennifer and Jim: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children during this difficult time. I was so glad to read about the actions you are taking through the legislature. Nothing will bring Jarod back, but if good can come from this tragedy, I hope it will help to assuage the emptiness and sadness you must feel at your tremendous loss. Hugs to you all, Anni Gibson (Redeemer)

Name:

Carol

Date:

20 Dec 2004

Time:

07:39:27

Comments

May God comfort a grieving family. You are in my prayers.

Name:

Beth Esterkamp

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

22:50:24

Comments

I just wanted you to know I was thinking of your family today. My daughter Olivia Esterkamp was in the first grade at Louisa Wright last year. I picked her up from PrimeTime between 5:30 and 5:45 I think. There were only about 3 or 4 kids left when I got there. I then went to pick up my then fourth grader, Matt, from Donovan. By the time we got home that night we could hear the sirens. We live on McBurney. I thought it was probably an accident because of the unexpected snow storm we had. I later learned what had happened. I have thought of and prayed for your family so often over the past year. When we headed off to church today, my children and I talked about Jarod. They each remembered him. I just wanted to let you know that remain in our prayers. Sincerely, The Esterkamps P.S. The website is beautiful.

Name:

RM

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

16:55:33

Comments

May God continue to always Bless you and Jarod - as I know He will.

Name:

Jarod’s Dad - Jim

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

16:21:13

Comments

Today has been one year since Jarod’s death, it’s still difficult to comprehend and accept. In reality we’ll never really “accept it”; hopefully we’ll adjust and find some degree of peace we can live with. Although the anniversary date is such a strong reminder to many people, I have dozens of reminders everyday. I miss Jarod terribly and I think of him often, which is often accompanied by a range of emotions including pain, tears, smiles and at times laughter. How drastically our lives have been changed, it has also changed the lives of so many others too. I thank so many people whose kind thoughts, comments, prayers, poems and hugs have made this past year bearable. I also know many of you feel the pain too, it’s just not fair. I encourage you to hug your loved ones; children, spouses, parents or siblings, family is too important to take for granted, and we never know what lies ahead on our journey through life.

Name:

Jillian Bennett (aka your sis)

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

15:52:11

Comments

Well its the day ... everyone thinks just because i dont express myself in grief must mean im not grieving well they have another thing coming cus when they r put in teis place there is know certain way to act and i really dont no how to act today ... you know it shouldnt be a day we really celebrate just because it was so bad but... its nice to know that at least SPME people actually do think well of us. *Jillian* jarod blow me a kiss from way up high i'll catch it and send one to the sky!

Name:

Jillian Bennett(aka your sis)

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

15:51:53

Comments

Well its the day ... everyone thinks just because i dont express myself in grief must mean im not grieving well they have another thing coming cus when they r put in teis place there is know certain way to act and i really dont no how to act today ... you know it shouldnt be a day we really celebrate just because it was so bad but... its nice to know that at least SPME people actually do think well of us. *Jillian* jarod blow me a kiss from way up high i'll cathc it and send one to the sky!

Name:

a friend

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

14:07:55

Comments

jillian ur the best friend some1 could have. ive thought about u and the pain u must be going through. i pry for u everyday especially now more than ever. keep praying and know that people are praying for u

Name:

Type your name here

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

14:02:39

Comments

Jillian, Jake, Jim, & Jenny you guys and Jarod have been on my mind all week. u guys are in my thoughts in prayers.~haley c.

Name:

Angela Sparks

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

13:17:06

Comments

Jim and Jenny, Jillian and Jacob I just wanted you to know that your friends at St. Patrick's said a special prayer for Jared this morning and one for all of you. You have been in my prayers all week, knowing that this terrible day would be coming. Please know that you are loved, Jared is remembered, and we pray for you always. You are always welcome to join us when you are ready. With love and prayers, Angela Sparks

Name:

Carmen

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

02:08:43

Comments

People enter our lives for very special reasons. Jarod was most certainly there for you all. His memories will be yours forever and the joy that he brought is everlasting. Those happy memories are the ones that will remain over time.

Name:

Sandy Niehaus

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

01:47:06

Comments

Boy what a year this has been for all of you guys..Jenny,Jim,Jillian, and Jacob.I read this almost every night and I have noticed Jillian, that you leave your sweet little brother notes all the time... I sit and cry everytime I read the beautiful notes left by everyone.."The little guy" is so fortunate to have had a mommy like Jen,you might ask"how do I know"?????Jeny has always been in my life since she was about 10 yrs old and she is still, under all the rotten things she has had to endure in her very early years is more than anyone should have to deal with.. It is now December 19,2004 about 1:30 am, and I know come this early afternoon this is going to be just one more dagger that will be put in my Jenny,s heart....Please, everyone pray hard for her and Jarod's family, that they make it through this day and the following day of December23, the day her little guy was laid to rest.........I believe through prayer that God will be right there as you guys make the journey through these two most difficult days ahead...I love you guys.. And Jenny I Love you honey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Big Sandy

Name:

Debbie

Date:

19 Dec 2004

Time:

01:43:30

Comments

I am thinking about you all on this very difficult day. You're family is always in my thoughts and prayers.

Name:

Jillian Bennett

Date:

18 Dec 2004

Time:

23:19:18

Comments

im surprised know one has been on since its the day before you died but any ways what ever who cares about any one any more?!?!? well i remember tonite is the nite where we watched harry potter and shared pop corn. Well i g2g every one is wanting to go to sleep! *Jillian* ur big sis

Name:

Kristin Banks

Date:

17 Dec 2004

Time:

12:38:09

Comments

My fiance, Douglas Suter, is one of the lawyers working on your case. I can tell you that he is very passionate about this case! I know that the new Jarod's Law will help many many children for years to come... though it is a terrible shame that it had to happen at your little boy's expense! I hope your family can all find just a little bit of peace from this law. I can not imagine your pain... I am truly sorry for your loss!

Name:

Jane Marlowe

Date:

17 Dec 2004

Time:

11:43:22

Comments

Words cannot explain the sorrow I feel for your family's loss. I have a son who is almost six and started kindergarten this year. I can't even fathom such horror. Please know that even though I did not know Jarod, your family is and will always be in my thoughts & prayers! This is a beautiful website in honor of such a special gift, your child. It instantly brought tears to my eyes. I wish you all the best for all that the future holds for you and your family.

Name:

Concerned

Date:

17 Dec 2004

Time:

11:32:51

Comments

I read your heartwrenching story and I will be sure to advise my friends who are parents of scholl age children.

Name:

Elsa Stewart

Date:

17 Dec 2004

Time:

10:22:24

Comments

In Loving Remembrance of Jarod Matthew Bennett Joy to the world, the gift of your friendly enthusiasm And your great love of God's small creatures are still Remembered. Your big smile will shine in Our hearts forever with the brightness of Heaven. Not even Death will be able to separate us from God's love for us in Christ.

Name:

shannon

Date:

16 Dec 2004

Time:

20:16:20

Comments

you have a beautiful web site for your special angel...god bless him... and your family...they are never gone totally we always have them in our hearts and our dreams and memories...and when your feeling down take a moment to remember him and he will make you smile, with all the silly things he did, all the fun things you did together .... i lost a daughter and sometimes i sit and think about her and enjoy the memories we had even though her life was short also ...we can never forget the way they smile or there unconditional love that they have for us ...

Name:

Jillian Bennett

Date:

16 Dec 2004

Time:

17:06:32

Comments

Jarod i love u very very very much! ur big sis and ur only 4 ever and ever Jillian

Name:

Date:

16 Dec 2004

Time:

12:40:47

Comments

Hey Jillian, I am very sorry for your loss. I cant even imagine the pain you are going through right now.I have never loss someone that close to me before. I know the day is coming up so think of all the fun times you had and try not to dwell over the bad.Jillian remember that I am here for you. I LYLAS! TAG

Name:

britt daniels

Date:

14 Dec 2004

Time:

20:20:44

Comments

i love ya jillian and im soo sorry

Name:

Jillian Bennett

Date:

13 Dec 2004

Time:

17:25:49

Comments

Rocking A-rounf the x-mas tree............. i love this song its country yet rock... if u would here i can imagine just jumping around and dancing all crazy and laughing!:! <my silly face :) Wish you were here im glad you opened your gift early and i hoped you liked it! *ur sis *Jillian*

Name:

Tina and Cam

Date:

13 Dec 2004

Time:

13:58:42

Comments

I am so sorry for your loss. I do not know you or the pain that you have suffered. I only know that my prayers are with you. I have a 1 year old son, Cam. I cannot begin to imagine lossing him; I cannot begin to imagine your pain.

Name:

Type your name here

Date:

12 Dec 2004

Time:

14:05:08

Comments

Getting a Christmas Tree.... wish u were here jarod ... last year was a blast when we went inside and got all that apple cider and picked out a tree ... we walked all over that tree thingy till we found a nice one that was already cut down .... i rememver there were deer nad a lil shop and u were outside on a mini mini- playground. im gonna go wish u were here with all my love ur big sis *Jillian Bennett*

Name:

Sara Hughes

Date:

09 Dec 2004

Time:

23:12:53

Comments

I don't know if this is something that you are aware of or not. It comes from a friend of ours who lost their sweet daughter, Sarah, 6 years ago. I know that you have suffered a loss also and want you to know that others still stand with you in support. I urge all those reading this entry to please remember Jarod, Sarah and the other children that have gone to Heaven much to early. Please also remember the families and friends of these children who will not be forgotten. Thank you. Sara Hughes Worldwide Candle Lighting December 12th, 2004 The Compassionate Friends invites families grieving the loss of a child at any age and any cause, to join us on Sunday, December 12th, as candles are lit at 7 p.m. in all time zones around the world for a 24-hour wave of light. To our friends: In memory of Sarah, We invite each of you to light a candle to represent the love that Sarah brought and continues to bring to each of our hearts. We love you. Barb and Bruce Flickinger

Date:

09 Dec 2004

Time:

19:03:27

Comments

Mr. Bennett Mrs.Bennett Jillian and Jake Know that I am praying for u

Date:

08 Dec 2004

Time:

22:51:53

Comments

I would like to take the time to tell you guys that im still thinking about jarod and always will. I cant believe its almost been a year--he was a very sweet kid. I remember when him and jillian would always bicker back and forth..he was the cutest thingg!! Im sure hes watching over all of us and would be proud to have a family like the Bennetts that keep his memory alive and well--he will be missed Love, Melanie White

Date:

08 Dec 2004

Time:

15:11:08

Comments

I teach at a school in Madison, Alabama. I received an email regarding the dangers of lunchroom tables from my administrator. I wanted to tell you that I am sorry to hear about your loss but I also wanted to tell you that people are spreading the word through email. Thank you for working so hard to educate people about this.

Date:

08 Dec 2004

Time:

12:12:35

Comments

Hey Jarod, im at school right now and yeah there isnt much to do im in study hall thinking ... every thinks that im always grumpy but it dosnt seem to occur to any one that this is the month of december . well i am just gonna type up an essay and get on later. love ya *Jillian*

Date:

05 Dec 2004

Time:

13:56:32

Comments

Jarod was a little bundle of joy. THe anniversary of his death is coming up soon and I think of Jarod and the Bennetts more than ever. I pray for them every day. I love Jarod and the Bennetts like a second family.*haley c*

Date:

04 Dec 2004

Time:

14:31:04

Comments

What a beautiful web site and wonderful tribute to Jarod! My heart aches for you as you continue to grieve. I work for our city school system and will forward the email I got to everyone I know. May God bless you and keep you and bring you the peace that comes through knowing Him. Betty Hopper Huntsville, Alabama

Date:

03 Dec 2004

Time:

10:32:21

Comments

hey jarod! i miss ya and i have been thinkin of you alot lately. happy late thanksgiving!!ttyl. phil 1:3

Date:

02 Dec 2004

Time:

17:01:33

Comments

This is a beautiful website and tribute to such a beautiful child. Jim, Jenny, Jillian and Jacob: I pray that God comforts you in the weeks ahead. Love, Martha Colaner

Date:

02 Dec 2004

Time:

14:04:21

Comments

To Jarod's Family....what a beautiful Website set-up in memory of your precious Jarod. I too, lost our son (Age 17) in car accident on Nov. 3/03. We are left with special memories and the joy he brought to our lives. My husband and his 4 remaining siblings grieve his loss...but pray and hope that his death, like many others....cause people to hold on tight to their faith and hold firm to the memories we all hold so dear to our heart. A precious boy you raised...thank you for sharing on his behalf the beauty he brought to you lives and all those who knew him. Love and prayers, Cathy Chapman (partner in: sisterhoodinprayer and griefnet)on line

Date:

02 Dec 2004

Time:

09:23:00

Comments

I am so sorry for what happened to your beautiful little boy. Who would of thought this could happen. My prayers are with you and your family. I lost my little brother in a car accident Jan. 26, 2004. It is very tough. I will ask my little brother to keep Jarod company and to play football with him (he loved football as well). I will pray for your family. Tiffiny Mabry Mustang, OK

Date:

02 Dec 2004

Time:

01:29:03

Comments

I am so sorry this happened to your sweet little boy. I lost my 17 year old son in a car accident January 26, 2004. I know how heavy and empty your heart is. Brian was my baby, he left behind 3 older bothers and 2 older sisters. I know how much you miss Jarod. I know that he is safe now with God. I was so touched by Jarod's story. I have a 5 year old grandson. I will forward this web site onto my daughter. Thank you for helping make others aware of the dangers of tables...who would have thought that could happen? I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God Bless Debbie VanLandingham ~ Brian's mom ~ http://www.geocities.com/angel_012604/Brian_Keith_Trammell.html February 15, 1986 - January 26, 2004

Date:

01 Dec 2004

Time:

16:52:07

Comments

I'm Really Sorry To Here About Jarod. I May Not Have Known Him But Me And Jillian Are Good Friends. And All I Have Heard Are Great Things About Him. I'm Terribly Sorry For What Has Happened. I May Not Know What Yo Are Going Through But Just Recently I Lost My Best Friend. Sarah Turner Was Killed In A Car Accident This Past Summer. I Miss Her Dearly. I Know You Guys Are more Hurt Then I Am And I Just Wanted To Let You Guys Know That He Is Happier Now And I'm Sure He Is Looking Down On All Of You. Once Again I'm Terribly Sorry. Jarod Bennett Rest in Piece

Date:

01 Dec 2004

Time:

09:32:03

Comments

I was driving into town last night and noticed the sign advertising the "Christmas Carriage Parade" that will be taking place soon in our town. This event last year was one of the last things we did together and I remember it like it was yesterday. We walked downtown, it was cold, we brought blankets, bought kettle corn, covered up and enjoyed the parade. Of course there was hot chocolate to warm up with when we got back. Such a bittersweet memory. I'm sure this month will be filled with them. I miss you Jarod, Paige

Date:

30 Nov 2004

Time:

15:03:14

Comments

What a lovely tribute to a beautiful little boy. Thank you for sharing the photos and memories of Jarod. I belong to griefnet as well. My daughter Gina was killed in an auto accident on Jan 16, 2003. My thoughts are with you all. It is the most catastrophic thing that can happen to us as parents Sandy DeChello

Date:

30 Nov 2004

Time:

14:28:44

Comments

Hi Jim and Family... I've just read the fantastic article that you have written. I hope it gets a wide circulation. I also want to you wish you some peace in the month ahead, these anniversaries and holiday seasons are so hard, and you will be in my thoughts. Hugs from downunder Jill, ^j^ Jordie and famiy

Date:

23 Nov 2004

Time:

11:16:59

Comments

What a handsome young man. How lucky for you to have him in your life even for a short time. I work in a school and move those tables around that took your son away from you. I am a day custodian and I have seen other injuries caused by those tables but nothing close to your loss. Gods speed in your quest for informing others Danette Ohlson-Huttunen

Date:

21 Nov 2004

Time:

18:50:46

Comments

Dear Jarod's family, God bless you for putting information about this hazard on your site. I am so sorry about your beautiful Jarod. It always tears out my heart to hear that a young child has died. I am Kristen Gippner's grandmother and was the first one to arrive at the hospital the day she was injured. I still get nauseated when I think about about the pain she went through and how she looked. Her attitude was much better than mine. She is now recovered and as lovely as ever. She is in the second grade and still loves school. The Raytown School District has replaced the tables, paid her hospital bills, and set up a fund for any future medical help she may need. May God be with you and yours. Jo Ann Gippner Kansas City Missouri jograndma@prodigy.net FYI - Kristen lived/lives in Raytown MISSOURI, a suburb of Kansas City MISSOURI. It was the Blue Ridge Elementary School in the Raytown Missouri School District where she was hurt.

Date:

19 Nov 2004

Time:

13:32:18

Comments

Thank you for story. Iam a school secretary, and we pray that you and your family find comfort in the grace of Jesue.

Date:

19 Nov 2004

Time:

09:06:42

Comments

This is a lovely website and a wonderful tribute to a well-loved and sorely missed little boy. Jarod's tragedy touched me deeply when I read about it. My son is almost exactly his age and has the same zest for life and love of the outdoors that Jarod had. I look at the photos of Jarod and see the same innocence, joy, and pureness that Jamie has. As you approach the one-year mark of his loss, I am sure that will be a difficult time. Your family will be in my prayers.

Date:

18 Nov 2004

Time:

20:14:12

Comments

Hey Jarod, its almost been a year and i cant stop thinking what i am going to do this year i wish you were here sooooo bad i dont wat it to snow it will bring back the worts memory of all the day it all happend i was shopping in Lebanon with 2 of my best friends Angie and Judy and that was the time it snowed teh most and then it happend. *Jillian* i want my angel to watch over me 4 christmas.

Date:

18 Nov 2004

Time:

19:40:45

Comments

Dear Bennett Family, I wanted to let you know that I visited Jarod's grave today. I have been thinking a lot about him and wanted to pay him a visit. It was a warm day and the rain had stopped. I noticed his big bright beautiful face as I approached and I said, "Hi, Jarod". Just then a gentle breeze started to blow and the pinwheel started turning and the windchimes were singing softly. It was as if he said hello back. I stayed a while and felt very comforted. I just wanted you to know that people have not forgotten Jarod. I still get a catch in the throat everytime I think of him and whenever I see a parent from the preschool class we always talk about him. He is not forgotten. Take Care, Carrie Besl

Date:

11 Nov 2004

Time:

17:50:45

Comments

Jarod, I don't know you but I know you were very close to my best friend and from what I hear, you are alot like me! I think we share some fascinations with bugs! And we both get pretty excited easily!I really would have liked to meet you but I think someday I will. I also love hearing stories from family vaccations and about sand castles and what not. Well, I'm glad I got to sign your guest book!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!! love,Marie <3 <3

Date:

08 Nov 2004

Time:

19:38:45

Comments

I was Jarod's friend in Kindergarten. When I heard about what happened I cried. I hope you guys are ok. Leeann Moore age 8yrs

Date:

05 Nov 2004

Time:

07:46:01

Comments

We are at almost 11 months since Jarod's death, not sure what to think about it. At times it still doesn't seem real and I tease myself by brief thoughts that Jarod is just away, such as on vacation or at school however the reality is never far behind. For me constant painful reminders are numerous throughout the day, you can't escape them, nor do you want too in fear of forgetting Jarod. Things I've experienced include driving to work behind a school bus and seeing a young boy skip down the driveway excited for a new school day, the start of the school season, Halloween costumes, or just passing a playground. In reality there's probably a hundred more I could list. Jim – Jarod’s Dad

Date: 04 Nov 2004

Time: 19:08:55

Comments

sorry i know yeah feel,it will be one year this year love,the chieniaes

Date: 02 Nov 2004

Time: 16:01:13

Comments

i love u jarod alexis Phillips

Date: 27 Oct 2004

Time: 10:54:02

Comments

i know jarod and his family, not as well as some but i still have stories. this is the first time i have been on his site, and i didnt even know him that well and it is still hard. before i didnt think i was strong enough to visit this site, and lately i have been thinking alot about life in general, and i thought that it was about time. i didnt think it would be this hard but it is. he is the cutest little kid, who was always smiling. i think that is what i remember the most about jarod was those big brown eyes and that adorable smile. and when he smiled he made every one smile too just because his went from ear to ear. and smarties, he absolutely love smarties. he had them every time i saw him i think. he was so much fun to be around, for only being 6 he had the cutest personality, it just seemed like he was too smasrt to only be 6. even though i was just starting to get to know you and your family, i will always think of him and will be on this site more often now. Phil 1:3 i miss ya little guy, and thinkin of you all(jim,jenny,jillian,jacob, and family). ttyl

Date: 24 Oct 2004

Time: 20:44:29

Comments

Hi jarod, this weekend was a four day weekend. You should have been there brittany came over and we went to the football game adn we saw a scary movie tehn the family came over adn we went to jakes football game and then that night me and steph set up a haunted house u would have loved ti i mean u really would of halloween is coming up and all i can thik about is you last year with ur ninja costume and going trick or treaking i wish you were here cuz this year im really to big to go trick or treating and i would have loved to take u around this year it would have been so much fun!!! Well i miss you a ton hope your having fun up there*. i love you and miss you ! your big sissy *Jillian***

Date: 22 Oct 2004

Time: 10:56:12

Comments

Good morning, I am and administrator with Warren County Children Services. Our agency has an old farmhouse on Broadway where children in foster care come to visit with parents and other family members, support groups for mothers are held, independent living skills are taught to teens in foster care, Children's Diagnostic Center performs diagnostic assessment of children and families. Recently, a local artist has donated her time to paint a beautiful mural making an old, dingy building a comforting place for children. In finishing her painting she added the initials J.B. to the honey in Winnie the Pooh's tree, in memory of your son. She thought it was a fitting tribute to dedicate a child's place to him. She had completed it before I had an opportunity to ask for your permission. I had no other way to contact you other than this site. I hope this is acceptable to you. It is now a room that brings calm and smiles to children who are having a very difficult time. On behalf of our entire staff I would like to extend to you our heartfelt sorrow for your loss. Patti Jacobs Warren County Children Services (513) 695-1511

Date: 21 Oct 2004

Time: 13:08:45

Comments

Just wanted to let your family know I am thinking of you and praying that our Lord supply you with the sweet peace that surpasses all understanding. Every now and then I check out Jarod's website for a reminder of how unimportant everything in this world is without God and family. There is a song called "Through the Fire" by The Crabb Family that I pray might help you get through today... "So many times I've questioned certain circumstances, things I could not understand. Many times in trials weakness blurs my vision and my frustrations get so out of hand. Its then I am reminded I've never been foresaken. I've never had to stand one test alone. As I look at the victories, the Spirit rises up in me and its through the fire my weakness is made strong. He never promised that the cross would not get heavy, that the hill would not be hard to climb. He never offered our victories without fighting but He said help would always come in time. Just remember when you're standing in the valley of decision and the advisary says give in, just hold on. Our Lord will show up and He will take you through the fire again. I know within myself that I would surely perish. But if I trust the mighty hand of God, He'll shield the flame again. He never promised that the cross would not get heavy, that the hill would not be hard to climb. He never offered our victories without fighting but He said help would always come in time. Just remember when your standing in the valley of decision and the advisary says give in, JUST HOLD ON, our Lord will show up and He will take you through the fire again." God Bless your family.

Date: 19 Oct 2004

Time: 17:30:39

Comments

hey J-Rod. Its your buddy max. I just wanted to say hey and whats up. Me and Jake are having a great time. we have beaten Halo on heroic mode and now we are working on legendary. Its really hard though. We are only on like the 4th level. Halo 2 will be coming out soon and we plan to spend many hours playing that. The main reason for me that I am sad for is i never got to see you grow up. On vacation I always pictured me being Jason's age and you being my age. I wanted to spend time with you like that. I'm mainly glad that i got to spend time with you as much as I could. But I always pictured that when we went on vacation. Well I'll regularly update you on how Halo is going and I'll talk to you about how life is going. Love Your best bud Max

Date: 15 Oct 2004

Time: 18:44:02

Comments

Still thinking of you Jarod, and family, as we near the holiday season. God bless all of you as we know it will be yet another very difficult time in your lives. Jarod is in our hearts every minutes - without exception! The Lebanon Community

Date: 14 Oct 2004

Time: 12:36:59

Comments

I don't know you or your family but please know my prayers are with you and your family. Heather

Date: 10 Oct 2004

Time: 11:04:37

Comments

I wish you guys the best for the rest of your life. kaycee hopkins

Date: 09 Oct 2004

Time: 14:32:16

Comments

I have so many memories of Jarod but there is one I will never forget. Jillian and Jacob always used to come down to our house. Jarod was always tagging right along. We would end up playing a game of kickball and Jarod was always in on the action. I can still see him running around with a huge smile on his face. To this day, I still miss him terribly. Me and my family continue to keep the Bennetts in our prayers. We miss you Jarod and can't wait to see you some day. Love Haley Cuffman

Date: 29 Sep 2004

Time: 22:27:57

Comments

I was looking through this website remebering the day that i heard this tragic news....i still wonder why God takes lives that have so much life left to live. I honestly believe that God has a better plan for the young children who are so quickly taken away from us. I believe that he is using them for a special plan. I used to have a hard time dealing with death, especially after the death of two very close friends, Katie Marie and Brandi Sue, yet i have come to the conclusion that there is no need to live your life in sorrow, for we will see these loved ones again. I just sit and imagine the smiling faces of everyone who i have lost standing at the gates of heaven, reaching their hands out and saying "Welcome home". I know that Jarod is enoying every minute up in heaven with his heavenly father and i know that he is watching over all of his loved ones every moment of everyday.

Date: 28 Sep 2004

Time: 19:04:43

Comments

Jarod i love you! Jillian

Date: 23 Sep 2004

Time: 18:09:14

Comments

Jarod baby im still missing you so much. Im away at college now and i have your beautiful little face on my computer screen. Every chance i get i come to see your site... you were a remarkable little boy, whom i will never forget, you are still in my thoughts everyday! i love you buddy! Kristen Tonstad

Date: 19 Sep 2004

Time: 15:10:34

Comments

I have attached a link from the LWYFL website to your site. I hope you approve. God bless you all. Jim Beckner

Date: 15 Sep 2004

Time: 14:17:23

Comments

We are now coming up on 9 months, it hardly seems possible. Jarod was a very special person in my life. It is nice to see on this website how many other people loved him so much too. I have a picture on my desk of he and I, a memory of a wonderful time. I want more wonderful times; just more time in general. Jarod, I think of you constantly. I miss you and love you, and I wish you were still here with us. Love, Paige

Date: 14 Sep 2004

Time: 12:21:01

Comments

I don't know you but I go to school with Paige Partin(cousin)and she wanted to show me this web site. She is sitten right here next to me tellin me the story and im very sorry about your loss, he sounded like a great kid. ~Tiffany~

Date: 10 Sep 2004

Time: 12:19:35

Comments

Your site has touched my heart deeply. I was looking through the internet for brochure ideas for a family member. I have a 4 year old child and you have educated me on the dangers of those tables. Thank you for the opportunity to share your child's story and warning others. God bless you and your family.

Date: 28 Aug 2004

Time: 03:00:57

Comments

Jarod...wow where do i begin? From the moment i first met you i knew you were an amazing little boy.I always told everyone if i were to have a kid i would want them to be just like you. We had so much fun when I got to babysit you, with melting choclate in the microwave to dancing to Jillians music in her room. Then everyday seeing you riding your bike around the circle with your helmet on, chasing you around doing the scary voice i did that you always loved and begged me to do. I miss you so much :( you were a very special boy... love always, Kristen

Date: 26 Aug 2004

Time: 00:12:53

Comments

hmmmmmm thinking of everyone i despise now... jillian

Date: 18 Aug 2004

Time: 20:56:17

Comments

People do move on but we always have Jarod in our thoughts and prayers. I still to this day visit his memorial almost weekly - I have never met Jarod or his family but his life has impacted my life very significantly - perhaps more than anyone ever has! He is loved and never forgotten!

Date: 17 Aug 2004

Time: 12:19:19

Comments

Well it seems as if people move on and forget that we can never be mendded .... and that since you are gone its hard and others no it but they dont feel it so they can move on and only remember your name which isnt right just to remember and then again forget because unlike you know people get old and all they can think about id there life which is good i guess people say to move on and think about the future but all other people can think is .... you were supposed to be part of my future now your gone so what future do i have ... but in this case i dont no what to do . ttyip *Jillian*

Date: 17 Aug 2004

Time: 11:10:29

Comments

Hi Jenny. I just wanted to let you know that I still think of you and your family every day. You are always in my prayers, as well as your Mom and Aunt Norma. Lots of love, Becky

Date: 04 Aug 2004

Time: 11:39:47

Comments

Jarod i love u and miss you very much i no that vaca is this week and i still no ur gonna be there and i am gonna make a promise to build u a sand sculpture or something lol. Remember when me and Chels barried ur body in the sad and made a merrmaid body around you ! fun times .... *Jillian*

Date: 26 Jul 2004

Time: 11:15:36

Comments

Dear Bennett Family..... I am a fourteen year old girl. I could not imagine what it would be like to lose one of my five brothers and sisters. I do have a big family but each person is very different. I know this lady that died, she was the nicest person you will ever meet. When she died I just couldn't understand why. My mother really gave me an answer.....it was because God needs really great people in heaven to look over us and he only chooses really great people! Im sure your son was a chosen angel looking over you and your family. Be strong because Jarod is in better place and you will see him again. Seeing him will be the best gift of all. I'm very sorry for your lose. Stay strong and God bless!

Date: 12 Jul 2004

Time: 19:01:38

Comments

Jenny- I visit Jarod every week. Today I was holding some of his action figures, and thinking how much like my oldest son he probably was. I share my roses with him, because he was so beautiful, one of God's miracles, like the rose. As so many have said here, I think of you not once, but so many times a day. I am always so glad to see you on Sunday mornings, yet I wonder how you can get through each service. Although I never knew Jarod, I have 3 children all who are close in age to Jarod. I thank God for every day that I have to share with them. Please know that I am always around with an ear, a shoulder, or just to sit and pray. You are always in my thoughts. Angela Sparks, St Patrick's Episcopal Church, Lebanon

Date: 11 Jul 2004

Time: 13:43:38

Comments

I am a grieving mother. I came across your website as I was looking for a friend of mine, whose name is also Jarod Bennett. I hold great sympathy for your loss. My son, Justin, passed away six years ago. He was seven. I sit here now, with tears rolling down my cheeks, knowing that Justin is in Heaven with your Jarod. I would love to be able to tell you that it gets better in time, but as of yet, I have not gotten there. Justin has a twin brother, Joshua. It has been almost harder for him, than for anybody else in our family. I know that it has been equally as hard for Jacob and Jillian. Please know that our prayers are with you. Kristen Howard Herrin, Illinois kristen.howard@mchsi.com

Date: 09 Jul 2004

Time: 14:39:15

Comments

Dear Jarod, I miss u with out a doubt..... a lot . /it really kind of sucks that i dont have you to talk to I mean yeah you were only 6... now 7 ... but i mean that was so neat about talking to you if it was a secret you wouldnt tell any one cuz you didnt understand what i told u in the first place. You were so easy to talk to ... when i would cry and i was in my room you would here me and walk in and say "Jillian... whats wrong?" and sometimes afterwards you would give me a hug... you loved me a lot and i know i loved you ... you cared for me even though you were very young you understood me. Now all i wish is that i could understand you what you are saying and where you are. To bad that i cant. I still love you and always will! *Jillian Bennett*

Date: 26 Jun 2004

Time: 13:11:09

Comments

It has been over 6 months and the pain of missing Jarod is still very strong for everyone who knew and loved him. How do we do this? How do we go on? He was such a special little boy who's energy and love for life was, and still is an inspiration, yet the pain of his loss at times seems unbearable. Will this ever get better? We love and miss you Jarod and I think of you always.

Date: 21 Jun 2004

Time: 18:22:35

Comments

I am so touched by your beautiful tribute to your precious Jarod--what a tragic loss for all of you. I was also sad to read that Jim's mom had recently died---what a rough time for you all. Although I don't know you, my heart goes out to you and I wish I could make your pain better. I am a nurse who works with dying infants and children. May God's perfect peace surround you until that glorious day when you can all be together forever. Love Alexandra

Date: 17 Jun 2004

Time: 10:49:56

Comments

Happy birthday Jarod! We all love you! Lebanon Ohio Community

Date: 17 Jun 2004

Time: 09:02:31

Comments

Happy birthday Jarod! we all love and miss ya very much! Tell Cody i say "hi and that we all miss hima dn love him too"! i hope you have a very WONDERFUL BIRTHDAY JAROD our lil angel! uv always *u'll know* ;-)

Date: 17 Jun 2004

Time: 06:09:51

Comments

It's Jill in New Zealand, just popping in to say hi and to wish Jarod a happy birthday. Just wanted uou to know that somewhere in the corner of the bottom of the world someone is thinking of you all today.

Date: 16 Jun 2004

Time: 10:47:42

Comments

Dear bennetts, i am so sorry for your loss. From what i can he was very cute and very athletic. Once again i am so so sorry for your loss. God bless.

Date: 13 Jun 2004

Time: 13:30:13

Comments

Jenny,Jim,Jillian,Jacob I know we all will never forget Jarod. It feels like it all just happened and I still can't except it. He is missed so much everyday I think of him everyday. Every night I go to bed and I look at the picture I have on my night stand and hope and pray for all of us to be able to go on with our lives and never forget the happens he brougt to everyone he met. my heart go out to all of you and you are in my thougts everyday. Jarod was an angel when he was here and now he is a angel in heaven looking down on all of us. He is now your guardian angle and watchs over all of you every day. I wish I could take some of the pain away but I know I can't and it still hurts everyday. He will never be forgoten and I loved him so much. Ilove all of you with all my heart. Love Aunt Sandy

Date: 12 Jun 2004

Time: 22:06:38

Comments

Jim and Jenny, It makes me feel better that Jarod has Kiki with him. I know he greeted her with a huge smile and a hug and if there were any bugs around I am sure he was proudly pointing them out to her. Thank you for adding her. I miss both of them greatly. Dottie

Date: 01 Jun 2004

Time: 13:09:52

Comments

I remember Jarod from my time at Redeemer. He was such a sweet and happy child. Hopefully, this tragedy will help educate others to the dangers of folding tables. I am on my way to my son's school to bring the principal the article about table safety. God bless you, Kathy Rywolt

Date: 01 Jun 2004

Time: 09:44:26

Comments

I hope you have fun. Bobby Denzil Collier

Date: 01 Jun 2004

Time: 00:39:27

Comments

I know that there isnt much that anyone can say that will take the hurt away,but you have such loving memories of Jarod, now he is in gods keeping and you will see him again, we will keep you in our prayers. the oram family.

Date: 28 May 2004

Time: 09:57:48

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dear jillian, i read you post. i want you to know that i never knew your brother but i think about him and your family often. although i have never suffered the death of a brother or a child, i am a mom, i did loose someone very close to me. it was four years ago and i still cry and still wish she was here with us. i know i can't make you feel better, but i want you to know that i do care about you and your family. it is ok to feel terrible. i think you will always hurt when you think about jarod, but the memories of the times you had together are worth the pain. you had lots of memories of a little brother that made you laugh and lots of memories of a little brother that made you made mad, both sets of memories are equally precious, never stop remembering or talking about jarod. please find someone that you can talk to or email me at ditoes@netscape.net. i am terrible about checking my email on a daily basis but i will write back. write me with a story about jarod or just to vent your feelings. there are people who care and pray for you. i hope you find someone to share your feelings and stories with. one of the people that cares about jillian and remembers jarod, ditoes

Date: 25 May 2004

Time: 11:00:28

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JUST WANTED TO THANK YOU DEARLY FOR E-MAILING ME TO INFORM ME OF THE JAROD BENNETT MEMORIAL FUND! BACK IN DECEMBER, I FELT THAT I WANTED TO DO SOMETHING SO BADLY, BUT, DIDN'T KNOW WHAT. I HAVE GLADLY CONTRIBUTED TO SUCH A WONDERFUL FUND. I HAVE ALSO READ THE TABLE DANGERS SECTION AND HAVE TALKED TO MY OWN SON REGARDING THIS. THANK YOU SO MUCH AND I HOPE YOU ARE ALL DOING WELL. MY HEART IS STILL WITH YOU. GOD BLESS, RHONDA SKIRVIN

Date: 24 May 2004

Time: 13:22:46

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What a beautiful little boy he was, I unfortunately never had the pleasure of knowing Jarod...i definately missed out. Six years, not even a lifetime really, and Jarod touched sooo many people in our community & at my school (LHS) it is truely amazing. "Some people make the world special, just by being in it." Obviously, that was Jarod, & now that God's taken him home...the happiest little angel is watching over us all...may he rest in peace. To his parents & family...your strength is incredibly inspiring, Jarod would be proud:)keep it going!

Date: 24 May 2004

Time: 10:18:44

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hello im Samantha im really sorry bout ur son he is so cute and im sorry wut happend 2 him i looked at his pictures i can see he likes 2 play sports and if that was my son i would fell the same way.the way he smiled u prolly had lots of fun with him u prolly made u laugh the way he smiles in his picture it makes me so sad that he got hurt and by the lunch table im really sorry i will pray over ur son and ur family i might cry but its wroth it im really sorry i will watch over u and ur son and keep u guyz in pray....

Date: 24 May 2004

Time: 10:17:12

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I hope he had a wonderful life before he died.And my sister is still crying about him.Evrytime she goes to bed she always would pray about him being next to her everytime she goes to bed.So i hope you have a wonderful life with out him.

Date: 24 May 2004

Time: 09:54:16

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Dear Bennett Family, I am very sorry for your lost. There are no words to explian how sorry i am for you and your family. I am very happy that you are having a Memorial Fund for Jarod and also remembering in his memory. Thank you and God Bless you... Much Love: Casey Kaufholz If you need anything at all please e mail me at caseygirl75@yahoo.com

Date: 21 May 2004

Time: 21:00:20

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My wish 2 you is to keep his spirit in your heart NEVER LET GO! Ashley and Amanda Wiley

Date: 20 May 2004

Time: 19:20:55

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the site has changed since i was last here. It is even more beautiful than it was. Jarod touched so many hearts in so many ways. I shed a tear every time. God bless you all

Date: 20 May 2004

Time: 13:28:46

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I visited your web site because I am also a grieving parent. Your site touched me and even though I did not know Jarod visiting his pictures and stories made me feel as though I did. I cried when I read the words to the song and it gave me great relief to do so. Thank You for being brave to share your story and pictures. I feel by doing so you will help many parents who are suffering the loss of a child. God Bless my aryers are with you. Tabatha Coghlan

Date: 19 May 2004

Time: 16:10:25

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I new jarod well . god bless him. I hope your ok jim and jenny.

Date: 16 May 2004

Time: 21:27:50

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Jarod, i have never met you but you seem to be such a fun and vibrant little boy!! I love you and you family and they are very close to alot of people. I just pray you watch over them through this tough time and let them know you are still here, i can't wait to meet you in Eternity! i love you

Date: 16 May 2004

Time: 21:21:31

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i was just looking at your son, Jacobs, page (of memories) and after i read it, i just looked up to God and said "God, why did you take such a young and fruitful life to Heaven?" and the second after the last word reached the air i just heard a voice that said "I called my child home, it was him time". and i just wanted to say, that is SO true...you son loved many and was loved dby those who got the chance to meet such a bundle of joy....you are in my (and my families) prayers and i just want you to know that, we love you, and your family and just remember, God is always on you side and He has Him own plan, and that inclued taking 6-year-old, Jarod Bennett, home with Him wear he will live for Eternity.

Date: 15 May 2004

Time: 21:04:14

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God Bless you and your family. Dave, Jenni, Becca, & Will Sweval Fairfield, OH

Date: 14 May 2004

Time: 08:38:56

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Once I heard about your son I immediately e-mailed you with my symapathy and my heart. I was in immediate tears for you and your family. This web site you have created in the memory of your son is spectacular. It truly shows all of your love for your son. I hope your message to other parents in regards to school tables is taken very seriously. Again, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Date: 10 May 2004

Time: 19:34:53

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i'm really sorry you iost your son. He was very athletic he was cute and young i guess GOD was ready for him. LOVE, KAYCEE HOPKINS

Date: 07 May 2004

Time: 09:25:54

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He did more in his 6 years of life than others could do in an entire lifetime. As difficult as it is to loose someone so special and vibrant, his death was not in vain...he is forever young, forever remembered and loved & was taken to a place with more comfort in beauty than anyone here could begin to imagine, he was spared some of the terrible things that life can throw your way. Jarod's gone home, & he watches over all he loves everyday...his little light keeps shining..Rest in peace lil one:) (P.S. this is a beautiful site & i want to commend Jarod's family for their strength...you know your making your little boy proud:))

Date: 04 May 2004

Time: 21:13:36

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I am so sorry to hear about your son it is a terrible tragedy to go through. I know down deep he is in heaven watching over all his loved ones.and I know hes there all the time in your heart and soul and memory.you all will be together in heaven.when Jesus comes.we will be with all the loved ones that we lost I know they are in heaven waiting for us to come home.you all are in my prayers.

Date: 02 May 2004

Time: 16:19:32

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**Bennetts** most of the comments i have read on this page have been talking and discussing jarod but i just want to talk to you (the family) a little bit. i have never met any of you personally, but i do wish that you know, every one of you are in my prayers daily!! you are always in my thoughts...although i griev for your family i wish you to know, jarod loved his life on earth and never expected his time would come so soon (i am sure you thought the same) but, God does have a purpose for all his actions...you will see jarod again someday and what a reunion that will be! i can't wait to meet each and every one of you in Eternity! i love you....

Date: 01 May 2004

Time: 14:13:11

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Hey Jarod ... its amazing... i didnt notice how many people could forget you and go back to there lives ... its gross how people do that i mean its really terrible. I menai no people should move on with there lives but then if you think about it its totally wrong. And what i cant stand... is all the time people asking me how im doing... just like nothing ever happened and i wasnt to say ... " What do you think... im terrible" but what i end up saying is " im ok you?" No one understands is ... well i dont even no how to describe how annoying! Jarod i miss you tons. I am home right now by myself and well i would be at jacobs game... but i have no one to hang out with there... and i dont want to hang out with a friend there its not the same witrh out you. I LOVE YOU 4 ETERNITY! *Jillian*

Date: 25 Apr 2004

Time: 23:07:15

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Hey Jarod, I really miss you.. i hope youre having fun with all the other little kids up in heaven.. i've resently lost a loved one of every one in my school... his name is Cody Mayo, I'm sure you've met him.. he just lost his battle with cancer, at age 13.. if you see him, i'm sure he's lookin better than ever, without that stupid cancer. Jarod I know i don't talk to you much anymore.. it doesn't mean i don't think about you .. it means i've tried to forget that you aren't here, to smile and laugh and play with everyone.. I hate seeing your family without you and your smiling face at mine and Jillian's soccer events.. it's horrible, i just want to cry right then and there.. i wish i could give you another hug, every now and then.. but it's not going to happen.. i keep a picture of you on my planner for school.. i've told all my friends about you, they understand .. & i'm friends with jacqelyn bouche, whom you know.. she & i keep you alive..i visit this site a lot, i want to keep learning more and more about you.. i miss that time when i came over, just for a little bit.. and then we went to Indiana.. I had lots of fun with you ! you had me laughing soo much.. and all those bugs, man.. i used to HATE bugs.. but now when i see one, i think of you.. and that makes me happy.. i just try and live life like youre still here..actually, you are still here.. you've just gone, out of touch.. to a better world.. i know you are up there smiling at everyone who remembers you.. you are a wonderful little boy and i hope that everyone who knew you, or even just past you on the street.. learned how you viewed life and how much you loved it.. you've made me see life in a whole different way and i hope everyone else sees how wonderful you are.. i don't deal with death very well.. it still hasn't hit me that you're really gone.. but i know you will always be here for me to talk to.. which i will always be doing.. i love you forever and always.. i will talk to you in a little while.. love, Ali (Mac) McKiernan

Date: 17 Apr 2004

Time: 21:01:30

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Hello Bennetts... your son Jarod has touched my life and those around me SO incredibly much. I visit his site often and every time i cry more then the last time, like never before... I don't know your family personally but i applaud you for being so brave in this rough time. I pray over each and every member of your family and you are very close to my heart at all times. Just remember, God is always there to comfort and guide you through your tough situations. He IS your heavenly father and always will be, no matter what the circumstance. Keep in mind, Jarod IS very much still here, he is YOUR angel and you will ,one day, see his big brown eyes, and gigantic smile again. The Lord God has just called one of His children home, for his time on this earth was up, he is now playing and catching as many bugs as ever...IN ETERNITY!! He DID enter EVERYBODYS heart that had the pleasure of meeting such a bundle of joy. With love from Jesus...**_____________**

Date: 14 Apr 2004

Time: 16:29:02

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Thank you for your information. I lost my son 7 years ago.

Date: 13 Apr 2004

Time: 21:21:33

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As Seasons Pass The winters gray is hard to bear, Taking hold my heart to tear. And so I stumble through each day, Hoping God will show the way. The storm is close, I cannot hide, But Deity drapes comfort by my side. And so the pain will run its course, Broken down by a higher force. Today I sit and ponder thoughts of you, Wondering what it's like from your heavenly view. A few words, or a soft caress I'm longing for, Instead, my thoughts and pen will close the sore. Through the years you left an indelible mark, Sketching love, joy and caring in my heart. And until the day my time to pass, Your legacy lives and memories last. The winter's gray will slowly fade, Slipping to other seasons along the way. You needn't worry about my struggle here, When the warm wind blows I'll know you're near. C. David Poppe

Date: 12 Apr 2004

Time: 19:48:24

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Jarod you know that i loved talking to you and i still do so always remember to listen. Well i just want to let everyone know that i am thankful for Jarod every day of my life. I know about every one either when they were young or if they are young just about sauid to there brother/sister "I hate you" or " your stupid" well thats how it was around here but just because you say that dosnt mean that you dont love them as well . I mean Jacob me and Jarod all did that i mean its nature to kids our ages. But we always end up experessing how much we love each other. So i just want to say Mom,Dad,Jacob,Jarod, and Rocky(our puppy dog) I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART!!!!!!!!!!!! Love, Jillian Bennett

Date: 04 Apr 2004

Time: 20:05:47

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JIM...THE WEBSITE IS STILL JUST BEAUTIFUL...KEEP ADDING THINGS TO IT, EVERYONE HAS ENJOYED IT SO MUCH. GOD BLESS

Date: 02 Apr 2004

Time: 19:35:32

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I check back often to see the beautiful things you write and do for this website for your son Jarod. I have posted before and I wanted to tell you that the part you wrote about "Our Wish" is EXACTLY how a parent is when they have lost a child. I read every word you wrote and I thought to myself "Wow that is how I feel too" I myself have lost a child and that pain never leaves completly. Just wanted to tell you that I was still praying for your family and to let you know how great of a job you have done on this wonderful website. Leslie

Date: 31 Mar 2004

Time: 15:40:42

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Hi Jim and Jenny, Just wanted to let you know that Ghent will be contributing to Jarod's playground equipemt fund. We got the flyer about it today here at work. You are in our thoughts everyday, and I know Jarod is watching over all of us. Please call if you need anything. Christye, Mark, Jeremy and Justin Leasure

Date: 29 Mar 2004

Time: 15:11:16

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Wow! You are amazing, as was Jarod. I check your website periodically and today was the most recent visit. I don't know any of you; however, I feel like I do just because of your story. I just finished reviewing your "Our Wishes" page and am very "touched." I hope a million people read your comments and learn from them. I remember losing someone very close to me years back. . . . it felt as if I was invisible; everyone talked behind my back (nothing bad, just didn't talk to me or when I was around they were afraid to be themselves). A lot of your comments on this page "hit home," especially the pieces about "living through your grief." How very true! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, for sharing the pain within your heart. Even strangers are thinking of you and Jarod always.

Date: 24 Mar 2004

Time: 23:12:05

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Jenny, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine your pain... You're in my prayers. Liz Johnston (Christina Nolan's sister)

Date: 24 Mar 2004

Time: 17:58:51

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Dear Jim: I have no words to express my sorrow at your great loss I can only hope that God will ease your sorrow in time. You will never forget him. I wish I could be more expressive with my thoughts. I love you and I pray for you every day. Love to Jacob and Jillian Love, Mom/Kiki

Date: 19 Mar 2004

Time: 14:17:02

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I didn't know Jarod very well, but I know his Mom, Dad, and brother Jacob through sports with my son. Jarod was always there watching his brother play soccer and football, and I'm sure he was hoping to be as good an athlete as his big brother one day. This site is awesome and brings tears to my eyes everytime I read something new-thanks for letting us all "know" Jarod a little more through this website. I know I don't ask very often when I see the family, about how you are coping, but I'm always thinking it and hope that your pain softens, even though it will never go away. My kids are my "everything" and I can't even begin to imagine the suffering over such a loss. It breaks my heart - Sue W.

Date: 15 Mar 2004

Time: 17:35:37

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i never met jarod but just from this website i can tell he has a AWESOME life and loved everyone he met. Everytime i visit this site it just makes me want to cry and i grieve for you and your family. Know that you are all in my prayers and i love every single one of you!!

Date: 12 Mar 2004

Time: 10:56:22

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Hi Jarod, Hope you are having fun and are still collecting all those heavenly bugs up there.You know your mommy misses you so much. Maybe someday you can let her know that you are OK by maybe letting one of your favorite bugs be around one of her favorite beautiful flowers and when she sees this she will know you are with her always!!!!!!!!! We love you buddy!! Oh Jarod, by the way, when the wind blows could you please blow a few of your sweet little kisses down here for her too, I know that this would absolutely make her smile from then on..WE MISS YOU!!!!

Date: 11 Mar 2004

Time: 11:25:47

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Jarod I love and miss you so much everyday, my days are filled with thinking about you, we all miss you so much, that beautiful smile and your big brown eyes always sparkling, just making everyday here so special. I know you are having fun and watching over us. I love you always Grandma

Date: 10 Mar 2004

Time: 20:02:24

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hey Jarod...i always wonder if you remember me or if you will if you r watchign me or if you still talk to me. I know i believe it all and i think thats all i need to believe. Guess what... mom is putting red streaks in my hai... and im not going out with BRANDON lol(us kids inside joke) I still like TJ but we rnt going out any more. I am doing ok down here i hope you are doing well i want you to be as happy as you were.Ilove you!!!!!!!!!!!! your big SIS Jillian Benentt

Date: 10 Mar 2004

Time: 20:00:10

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hey Jarod...i always wonder if you remember me or if you will if you r watchign me or if you still talk to me. I know i believe it all and i think thats all i need to believe. Guess what... mom is putting red streaks in my hai... and im not going out with BRANDON lol(us kids inside joke) I still like TJ but we rnt going out any more. I am doing ok down here i hope you are doing well i want you to be as happy as you were.Ilove you!!!!!!!!!!!! your big SIS Jillian Benentt

Date: 07 Mar 2004

Time: 21:30:50

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Jim, please update more often the pictures of your family, everyone enjoys to see them so much.. What you do shows how much Jarod means to you and your family. God Bless!!!!!

Date: 07 Mar 2004

Time: 11:56:38

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jaord hunny...i miss ya just a few weeks ago ( feb 24 ) on eof my best friends lost his fight to cancer hes was 13..its been hard but i no hes in a better place..up there with you..his nam eis cody mayo so if you see him ( he will be the one with a BIG smiel from ear to ear) tell him we miss him adn love him very much!..thanx babe! Luv ya..."only the good die younge" :-D

Date: 07 Mar 2004

Time: 01:29:17

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Hi Jarod....We love you buddy!!!! Don't forget to share all the bugs up there in heaven..

Date: 04 Mar 2004

Time: 00:22:29

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Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry Jarod died so unexpectedly and yet, think it is beautiful that your wife was able to be with him in his last moments. I wish you peace in your journey of grieving. Peace, Monica Van Steenberg

Date: 01 Mar 2004

Time: 20:26:15

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Jarod, sweet little bug friend. Your passing has left all of us with heavy hearts, not only in your passing but in knowing how much your family is missing you. We all miss you very much and you are always in our thoughts. How I wish......so many things but I know they are not within my power to grant. Please send your smile in the sunshine, your laughter in the breeze, and little fireflys for the many memories you have left with us. I miss you Jarod, love, Aunt Dottie

Date: 29 Feb 2004

Time: 16:56:46

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dearling sorry that this happened, he was a great kid!!!!love the pictures!!

Date: 27 Feb 2004

Time: 09:35:11

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Jarod, there is so much to say about him. everyone knows that smile, those pudgy cheeks, and that little laugh that would light up anyone's day. i had the privilege to know Jarod and i cant wait to see him in heaven one day. i think about you often Jarod, i love you. Judy O:)

Date: 27 Feb 2004

Time: 00:36:42

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I am a Freshman at Western Carolina University. I saw your link on a friends profile. I know that I dont know you but I want you to know that I am so sorry about your loss. Always remember that he is in Heaven right now, because all of God's children are there. I will keep your family in my prayers. May God bless and keep you always. Sincerely, Leslie Collins

Date: 26 Feb 2004

Time: 23:25:47

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I am deeply sorry for your loss. I am not an openly emotional guy but I am teared up right now. I will pray for your family to have peace and comfort during this difficult time and I can only hope to be a witness of your reunion with Jarod in heaven one day. Charlie,Florida

Date: 26 Feb 2004

Time: 19:37:30

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I'm very sorry for your loss... Nakia Dean Atlant Georgia

Date: 25 Feb 2004

Time: 21:58:49

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"Only the good die young.."

Date: 25 Feb 2004

Time: 19:59:27

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Jim and family, Just a note to let you know you are in our prayers each and every day! I see you often at the YMCA in the morning Jim and say a quite prayer for you each time. I have never met you nor did I know Jarod but that great big smile on his face will forever light up our hearts. Thanks again for sharing him with all of us! ~ A Father of 3 beautiful children also!

Date: 25 Feb 2004

Time: 14:23:11

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I am so sorry . I to know your pain I am a member of griefnet and saw your son's web site. I had tear's in my eye's the whole time I when t through it. my daughter was killed in a car accident she had massive head and neck trauma. she was five. I wish their was something I could do for you. if you have not seen my daughter's web site e mail me at pumkinhead_7@msn.com and ask for veronica's web site and i will be more than happy to send it to you or any one who read's this. Veronica's Mommy Sonia Diaz Glendale ,Az, Usa

Date: 25 Feb 2004

Time: 09:52:25

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Another memory that I remember is Jarod coming down almost every weekend in the Summer with Jillian. When we played soccer, kick-ball, or football, Jarod was always there wanting to play right along with us. Again I miss him greatly and I cannot wait his smiling face someday. Haley Cuffman

Date: 24 Feb 2004

Time: 08:11:00

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Dear Jim: Just a quick note to let you know that I am thinking about you and your family as you continue to grieve for Jarod. The website continues to grow and is a wonderful tribute! I am always glad to see you in church and hope that you find some comfort among your spiritual community. Anni Gibson

Date: 20 Feb 2004

Time: 09:36:26

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Jillan has been my best friend for such a long time, and i would have never thought we would have gone through such a hrd time! but jillian keeps my laughing and smiling everyday! shes an awesome friend, and im glad we found each other! jarod~ my new christmas angel!

Date: 18 Feb 2004

Time: 17:49:58

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I remember Jarod as a boy that would bring joy to your heart, no matter what kind of mood you was in! he always wanted to wrestle, so we did all the time but he was very considerate, I broke my toe and couldn't play rough for a while ,so before he would jump on me he would ask me" is your toe better can we fight now"?! i love you Jarod, you are on my mind every day.

Date: 16 Feb 2004

Time: 20:44:47

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Hey Jenny, It's Sandy, I just wanted to let you know that I think about you every minute of the day and night. You have been such a big part of my life for so long, I can't even begin to understand the hurt you are feeling. I have the picture of you and Jarod on my television that will remain on there till I am no longer here anymore. I look at it all the time and just know that "I" do know that Jarod could not have had a more loving MOMMY than you. Don't you ever forget that!!!!!!!! I'm sure that "Grandma and Grandpa Fincel"will definitely be keeping an eye on him. I only know this because of how much they loved you..I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!! Sandy

Date: 15 Feb 2004

Time: 22:44:01

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Oh Baby...I love you Jill...Your Jarod is so precious. My Alana went over on 11-28-03...I am sending her a message to look out for your baby. As we do here on this plane...so do they in a place that has far more freedom for comfort. My heart is with you and prayers and light for healing your memories. You were there...why ? To comfort Jarod honey...to let him know you were there. I am sure his transition was eased. I know it was. The pain will never be erased. I want to hug you tight. I luv you Jarods' Mommy In peace,light,love and joy, Willow Alana's Mom Always and Forever

Date: 15 Feb 2004

Time: 17:06:29

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Your son was buetiful!!! i lost my brother in May, 2003. My mother is also on greifnet.org and has talked to the father. I am also on child greifnet. and have been talking with or have seen emails from your daughter. I know everyone says "i'm sorry and i know what your going through" but as for us, and you, and other followers of death from a child, we only know! I'm so sorry for your loss! Halie

Date: 15 Feb 2004

Time: 15:09:32

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With greatest caring from GriefNet. If you feel you could use a support group, just visit us at griefnet.org Cendra Lynn, Director

Date: 13 Feb 2004

Time: 11:01:43

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Jenny and Jim, I just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my prayers. I think about you all everyday. All my love, your cousin Becky

Date: 11 Feb 2004

Time: 22:36:13

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Jarod, I love and miss you so much it is so hard to go on every day. Just thinking about you, and all you could have been and would have been and now we will never know what you would have grown up too be. You were so wonderful for the six short years we had to share with you. A Heart of Gold stopped beating Two big brown Shining eyes at rest, God broke our hearts to prove he only takes the best. God knows you had to leave us But you did not go alone, For part of us went with you the day he took you home. You touched the hearts & life's of so many even people you did not know, we would have just held you and hugged and kissed you just one more time if the end we only had known. You were here only six short years like a bright and shining star and now you are a Special Angel watching over us, and though you are in Heaven you aren't very Far, but to us who loved and lost you we can still feel you and your everlasting love, we have your precious memories which will last forever in our hearts and you are our Special Angel watching from above. Until we are all together again, Remember we will always love and miss you and I send this Special Message up to Heaven to you, for you are our bright and shining Angel watching over us. I Love And Miss You Grandma Elsie

Date: 10 Feb 2004

Time: 17:27:34

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Hey jarod im writing this to you..ok i know i havnt prayed latley so i want to let you know real quick... (i wil pray to you soon... but not on here) Ilove you and miss you more than any one could imagine... and this summer will be the hardest with out oyu ... but i bet you will be there every summer day to watch me and make sure im ok! I love you hope you are doing well and ok Be good and have fun while you wait for me!ok love your big sis, Jillian Elizabeth Bennett

Date: 07 Feb 2004

Time: 23:37:24

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Mr. and Mrs. Bennett, What beautiful big brown eyes your son has. I just logged on to Jarod's Website after a friend told me about him. I pray God's comfort to keep you everyday until you get to see him in Eternity. I'm am sorry you have had to go through this pain. I did notice in all the pictures that he really LIVED a full and exciting life while he was here on this earth! Alot of fun and memories in six years. What a precious little boy! We love you even though we have never met. Tina Casner, Boone, NC

Date: 06 Feb 2004

Time: 13:09:48

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Dear Jim, Thanking you for visiting Erin's website. I am so very sorry that you lost your son, Jarod, on December 19, 2003. I have visited the website, only briefly, and he has already touched my heart. I plan on returning to the site, very soon, when I have more time to explore it in depth. God Bless you and your family. As you already know, Jarod was very, very beautiful and special. Fondly, Michele Fitzgerald Erin's Mommy Forever (7/31/98-1/17/03)

Date: 06 Feb 2004

Time: 12:50:28

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Your son is beautiful! I too am a grieving parent, my 13 y/o daughter was killed one week shy of her 14th birthday on October 26, 2003, by a drunk driver. Your sons stories, poems and pictures have touched my heart. We are bound together in grief. Your family will be included in my prayers. Janet's Mommy, Debbie H.

Date: 05 Feb 2004

Time: 11:12:08

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There is no other pain so consuming as losing a child. I am so sorry for your loss. I have a son with schizophrenia, severely disabled, once a gifted student that now barely functions without meds that have a lot of side effects. Although my son is still alive, he is a ghost of his former self and it is as though he has left, and all his hopes and possibilities are gone. I know that the overwhelming sense of having no control, nothing you could do to help, is just as hard. But I finally learned that God is in control, even when we don't have any answers why. Isaiah 43:2 is a verse of great comfort that you can turn to as often as you need. It has helped me many times in the past.

Date: 04 Feb 2004

Time: 22:49:19

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You have a precious little boy who sadly had to leave this world for reasons none of will ever understand , but now he's a precious ANgel in Heaven. So is my grandson Jakob, he left us after surgery due to Medical "complications." He was young also , only 3 & 1/2......... my thoughts & prayers are with you all.......... Hugs Jakobs G-ma Ebbie ( Debbie ) 10/19/02- 04 /18/02 http://iam.homewithgod.com/angeljeh/Jakob.html

Date: 04 Feb 2004

Time: 17:37:52

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To Where You Are, Josh Groban song: " Who can say for certain, maybe you're still here. I feel you all around me, your memory is so clear. Deep in the stillness I can hear you speak. You're still an inspiration can it be, that you are my forever love, and you are watching over me from up above. Fly me up to where you are beyond the distant star. I wish upon tonight to see you smile, if only for a while to know you're there. A breath away is not far to where you are. Are you gently sleeping here inside my dreams and isn't faith believing all power can't be seen. As my heart holds you just one beat away I cherish all you gave me every day. Cause you are my forever love and you watching over me from up above and I believe that angels breathe and that love will live on and never leave. Fly me up to where you are beyond the distant star. I wish upon tonight to see you smile if only for a while to know you're there. A breath away is not far to where you are I know you're there...a breath aways not far to where you are."

Date: 04 Feb 2004

Time: 17:20:21

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Life is not fair. When I think about all of the evil in this world it is simply unfair that a precious, loved child has been taken from his family. Jarod is a beautiful little boy who seemed, as his mother wrote, full of life. My sister's baby boy, Christopher, was killed at age 2. His death, like Jarod's, was unimaginable. My sister will never get over the loss of her child and our family will never be the same. Through God's grace, mercy and love, I have found peace with Chris' death. There are still times when the pain gets unbearable, but it is then that God, just as He promised, it there to comfort and strengthen me. Please know that Jarod's life meant so much to so many people. In reading the comments in this guestbook and the family stories, it is so amazing to see how much joy this little boy gave in his six sweet years. It is encouraging to know that in this time of grief and pain you have turned to God for strength and comfort. He is a source of peace. He is a shield. Know that thousands of people have been touched by this website. Thousands of people, probably hundreds of thousands or millions have heard about the legacy your little boy left behind. Your family is in the prayers of many Christians and many churches. Love, MAJ

Date: 04 Feb 2004

Time: 13:37:25

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Jarod sounds like the most amazing and loved little boy and I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I lost my 3 1/2 year old son Jakob on 4/18/02 due to complications from surgery. Just like Jarod, Jakob died in his mommy's arms. You have done an incredible job of keeping his memory alive and making complete strangers as myself know what an extraordinary boy he is and will always be. My thoughts and prayers are with all those who know and love Jarod. Jen, Jakob's mommy forever

Date: 04 Feb 2004

Time: 09:26:56

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As I looked at Jarod's pics and read his story, all I could think of was what a delightful child he seemed to be. I know his loss has been a been a horrible nightmare for all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. My name is Gay Kennedy and his site was given to me by his Grandma Elsie when she joined our group Missing Our Grandangels. I lost a grandson at the age of 2 mos 8 days. You have done a great job on his site and I know he is proud of you. Jarod, you are foever loved and missed.

Date: 04 Feb 2004

Time: 02:27:19

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Hi what a beautiful little boy my prayers are with you and your family my name is Mary I belong to a group called Missing Our Grand Angels I lost my beautiful 5 month old granddaughter Sapphire to Sids one year ago Again my prayers are with you all Mary Walker rwalker520@msn.com

Date: 03 Feb 2004

Time: 15:05:33

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My wonderful 13 year old daughter surprised me by finding the song Tears in Heaven on the internet. She knows how much I love the song and cry each time I hear it...knowing the story behind the words. We had no idea she would end up on your site and ended up spending much time and tears reading Jarod's story and looking at the pictures. We know God took us to your site to remind us how precious each life is. Thank you and God bless. Tania and Addie Rubino

Date: 03 Feb 2004

Time: 11:00:11

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I am so sorry for your loss at this time. This site is stored in my favorites on my computer and I visit here often. Jarod was very loved by you and your family and it shows on this website. My prayer is that all children be loved just half as much. My thoughts and prayers our with your family.

Date: 01 Feb 2004

Time: 18:38:27

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I am so sorry for your loss of Jarod. I sure understand what your going through I lost a 6 year old Grandson. You have created a beautiful site for Jarod. Donna

Date: 30 Jan 2004

Time: 19:57:22

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To the Bennetts, I have never been so overwhelmed by somebody that I do not know. Your story and this beautiful tribute to you son are truly touching. I cannot imagine the pain that you are going through, may God bless and keep you all safe and comfortable. I have realized that Life is so precious and not to take anything forgranted. 2 weeks ago I was blessed with my only little boy and as I look at him tonight I will say a prayer for you and yours. God Bless. Jenna

Date: 30 Jan 2004

Time: 19:53:22

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I know I have already emailed you directly Mr. Bennett, however I just recieved your reply and decided to come to the website again. I have never been so overwhelmed by somebody that I do not know. Looking at this beautiful tribute to your son makes me realize how precious life is. I am so sorry that this has happened to you and your family. I was recently blessed with my own little boy, and tonight I know I will go home and hold him for just a few more minutes than I normally do. May god bless you.

Date: 28 Jan 2004

Time: 19:58:35

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Our prayers are with your family at this tragic time. Tom & Michelle Bartlett, TN

Date: 27 Jan 2004

Time: 20:08:53

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I am so sorry for the loss of your son. The reason I am writing is because I saw an article on line today with an incident almost exactly like your sons. A 5 year old died in 2001 at his school also. The family has just settled a law suit against the table manufacturer. Apparently the company knew the tables were prone to falling over. The company is Midwest Folding Products. I thought you might want to look into this to see if it the same company as the one in your son's case. If so--something must be done!!! I wouldn't want another family to have to suffer like you are.

Date: 26 Jan 2004

Time: 23:30:02

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I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I,too, know how it feels to lose a son. Everything happens for a reason, it's just very hard to cope with because it doesn't seem like there is a reason right at the moment, or for a very long time after. My prayers are with your family now and always. Gena Pehl, WI, Joseph E. Ruddick 4/25/96-6/23/96

Date: 26 Jan 2004

Time: 21:08:56

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hey if any one ever wants to talk to me my email is sportshunny05@yahoo.com and my instant messenger screen name is LebbydancingQT5 love Jillian Bennett Jarod I love you and i miss you .(your big sis)

Date: 26 Jan 2004

Time: 17:22:16

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i look at your website all the time. it makes me cry everytime please keep adding pictures springboro,ohio

Date: 26 Jan 2004

Time: 12:24:01

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I am truly sorry for your loss, and thank you for sharing your precious little boy with us you have truly given us the gift of knowing him. I sit here in tears but with the joy of knowing of your Jarod and seeing the love you share as a family. May God bless you an keep you during this time may He heal the hurt. Annie,maryville, TN

Date: 26 Jan 2004

Time: 11:18:08

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I think this web page is a wonderful tribute to Jarod. I'm sure he knew then and continues to know just how much he is loved by his family and friends. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Jarod is in a wonderful place and you will be together again. God Bless all of you at this time and always. Sincerely, Jamie, Aaron, Alex and Tristan.

Date: 24 Jan 2004

Time: 21:06:49

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God will now take care of Jarod. I looked at his sweet face and his smile is so much like our 8 year old grandson who lost his father at age 5 to cancer. No one can know the heart ache of lossing a child. When our son passed away part of me died with him. My God bless your family.

Date: 24 Jan 2004

Time: 19:16:46

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I AM SO SORRY ABOUT JAROD, HE WAS A CUTE LITTLE BOY AND I AM SORRY THAT YOU LOST HIM SO YOUNG AND EARLY JUST HOLD ON STRONG AND STAND TOGETHER AS A FAMILY I GUESS LORD WAS JUST READY FOR HIM I KNOW YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH ALOT OF PAIN BUT EVERYTHING HAPPEN'S FOR A RISON AND JAROD WAS A RISON FOR HIS DEATH. LOVE, KAYCEE HOPKINS P.S.I WILL PRAY FOR YOU GUYS EVERY NIGHT

Date: 24 Jan 2004

Time: 10:49:35

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Jarod is a beautiful child with pure love written in his eyes. There are no words for the loss of a child-just know that you walk with God and the many parents who understand your grief and pain. Love and Big Hugs, Karen Mullins Steven Montgomery 1984-2001

Date: 24 Jan 2004

Time: 01:24:40

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What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful child. Our hearts & prayers go out to you in your loss. We will be here for you. Jane Fontenot Arcadia, LA GriefNet - CJ's mom

Date: 23 Jan 2004

Time: 23:54:33

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TO HIS (JAROD'S) FAMILY: I PERSONALLY DO NOT KNOW YOU 'ALL'; BUT HOWEVER I KNOW ELSIE AND SHE MEANS ALOT TO ME!! I KNOW THIS IS A TREMULOSLY SAD OCCASION THAT HAPPENED, I APOLOGIZE!! I SEND YOU (ALL) MY LOVE AND CARE AND ALL THAT I CAN. I THINK WHAT HAPPENED WAS TERRIABLE!! I KNOW ELSIE IS TAKING IT EXTREMELY AWFUL, I CAN'T IMAGINE YOU ALL!! I AM SORRY, AND IF THERE IS ANYTHING THAT I CAN DO, YOU CAN LET ELSIE KNOW, AND SHE'LL TELL ME!! YOU EVERYONE ARE IN MY PRAYERS!! JAROD'S PICTURES WERE WONDERFUL, THANK-YOU FOR SENDING THEM!! PLEASE LET ME KNOW!! (LET ELSIE KNOW) YOU IN MY THOUGHTS & PRAYERS!! GENA BRANSCUM

Date: 23 Jan 2004

Time: 15:31:29

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We were blessed with knowing Jarod from birth...I remember Jenny being pregnant and the day she and Jim brought him home from the hospital. I saw him nearly every day and can't recall a time that he wasn't smiling! He truly enjoyed life, which makes this so difficult to understand. My name is Jeannie and my husband is Kevin and, for the longest time, Jarod called us each "JeannieKevin". It didn't matter which one of us he was speaking to, both of our names were "JeannieKevin". We always got such a kick out of our special nickname and I think he continued to do it even after he knew the difference! He will be missed dearly because I believe he touched the heart of everyone he knew...I know he touched mine!

Date: 23 Jan 2004

Time: 13:13:23

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I visit your website from time to time. Although I cry everytime, I find that the tears are part of healing. Today when I visited, I saw the pictures of your family (the memory section). Many comments have been made about the great smile Jarod had, and it was truly great, but what stuck out today is that all of you have great smiles. You must be a great family and it is through our families that we can find comfort. One of the best ways we honor my mother is by also talking about her. Because she has stayed so alive in our memories and hearts, my children who were only 4 and 1 when she died have great "memories" of her too. Continue to talk about Jarod. Every tear that flows will help you to heal and every story told will keep him alive in your hearts. In time I hope your family can find happiness to make those great smiles return. It will truly be the best tribute you can give to your son. Continuing to pray for each of you. Diane

Date: 23 Jan 2004

Time: 13:13:22

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I visit your website from time to time. Although I cry everytime, I find that the tears are part of healing. Today when I visited, I saw the pictures of your family (the memory section). Many comments have been made about the great smile Jarod had, and it was truly great, but what stuck out today is that all of you have great smiles. You must be a great family and it is through our families that we can find comfort. One of the best ways we honor my mother is by also talking about her. Because she has stayed so alive in our memories and hearts, my children who were only 4 and 1 when she died have great "memories" of her too. Continue to talk about Jarod. Every tear that flows will help you to heal and every story told will keep him alive in your hearts. In time I hope your family can find happiness to make those great smiles return. It will truly be the best tribute you can give to your son. Continuing to pray for each of you. Diane

Date: 22 Jan 2004

Time: 22:58:11

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This website is wonderful, we all care so much. Please keep us posted on you and your family and if there is any thing you need. We all miss Jarod so much...

Date: 22 Jan 2004

Time: 15:43:04

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hey jarod, I havnt been praying as much and grieving as much because it is still so hard to think you are gone. I dont really know how to feel right now but if you ever want to talk to me just letting you know that you can . I LOVE YOU JAROD!!!!! your big SIS JILLIAN ELIZABETH BENNETT

Date: 21 Jan 2004

Time: 16:30:10

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Two wonderful websites for people who have lost a child or grandchild are: www.safeinthearmsofgod.org and www.notearsinheaven.com Both websites give hope from a Christian perspective that rises above our grieving and earthly mourning. The children ARE in heaven now, after all... I love your family and pray God's blessings and comfort and peace on all of you.

Date: 21 Jan 2004

Time: 11:01:28

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I just wanted to share a couple of stories about Jarod, although most of my stories have been told, I feel the need to let others know some of them too. Jarod was a very special little boy to me, to everyone actually. He made friends so easily, I don't think he had never met a stranger. Lucky for me, Jarod and I have spent a good deal of one on one time recently. One of mine, and I think one of Jarod's favorite things to do was to go to the YMCA and "hit the pool". He so badly wanted to go down the big slide. We worked very hard to get him to swim the length of the pool so that he could get that bracelet and be able to go on that slide. He actually made it the length one time, but the lifeguard didn't think he did it in good enough form and it took him quite a long time, so we were going to try again "next time". One time when we were on our way to the pool, my dad called me on my cell phone. Jarod asked me who was on the phone and when I told him it was my dad, he said, "can I talk to him too?" Of course I said yes, and the two of them talked about everything, from bikes, dogs, birds, bugs, swimming, age, and what kind of candy they liked, to, cloud shapes, football, shopping, brothers & sisters, hair color and, of course, do you love snow or what? This whole conversation took only about 15 minutes. I just wish I could have heard both sides of that one! Jarod was never afraid to talk to anyone, in fact he loved talking to everyone about anything! Jarod and bug stories are without end and I will be no exception. Last summer Jarod and Jacob and I were on the back patio having a picnic lunch complete with beverage of choice "bug juice" (Kool-Aid) to drink. Just as I was bringing lunch out to the table, Jarod came running up from the wooded area in the back yard, huge smile on his face, with a great looking "stink bug" in a jar, in the jar there were actually several kinds of bugs with sticks and leaves (to make them feel more at home). He just wanted to watch them in the jar while he ate, he said, "you know, kinda like watching TV while you eat, only more fun!" I love you and I will miss you Jarod, your friend Paige

Date: 20 Jan 2004

Time: 14:25:33

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My sister Mrs. Lester teaches 3rd grade at Jarod's school. She knew Jarod and was hoping to have him in her class in 2 years. We lost our Grandpa the Sunday after Jarod passed. I had to fly home to Ohio from Virginia on the 22nd to attend his funeral on Tuesday. My sister's thoughts were not only of our loss but of your loss as well. We know what it is like to try and get through the holidays when you have lost a loved one. She told me about your web site. I had to visit it. I want you to know she couldn't get through all the wonderful pictures of your son without breaking down and crying. Your son will be missed by people you may never know or meet. Dika Watson of Sterling, VA

Date: 20 Jan 2004

Time: 12:43:53

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We were out of town when we heard the news of your personal tragedy. I live here in the subdivision and wish to say how truly sorry we are for your loss. My husband is Anthony Watson's cousin, I believe we have met and through Anthony and Kelly have shared their grief as we know Jarod was friends of Chandler and Peyton, as they speak highly of both of you. I am adding this link to the www.silverwoodfarms.com website with your permission. Please let me know if it is not ok. If it is you do not need to reply. Thanks, Phyllis Roberts at Phyllis807@aol.com

Date: 20 Jan 2004

Time: 08:35:59

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Jim and family - I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I heard what happened on Warm 98 this morning and cried right along with the announcer. The announcer was so shook up reading Jarod's story "I'm Free" that he could barely get through it. One thought that helped me get through death in my family......there is a star shining bright in the sky...just for you. Please know my prayers are with you. Sincerely, Kim Schmidt

Date: 20 Jan 2004

Time: 01:59:26

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It is very apparant that you cherished Jarod tremendously. It shows so much in his smile. My husband and I crafted Jarod's temporary memorial, and my heart absolutely was breaking in two. Then I realized that God has a special place for children, and he was smiling that beautiful smile in the Kingdom of Heaven. I know that you love Jarod very much, and hope that your family can begin to heal soon. May God Bless you and ALL of your family. Kristy Johnson

Date: 19 Jan 2004

Time: 23:24:57

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Dear Jenny, my heart goes out to you and your family. My husband and I lost our second child, Mary-Pulliam,( a family name) when she was 22 days old. We did not have her as long as you did Jarod, but I believe the loss of a child is the most profound. I too, held my baby as she died. I think that this was the greatest gift that we, as mothers, were able to give our children, second only to their birth. I am glad that you were able to be with him when he went to God. My prayers are with you and your family, Sincerely, Michelle Allen Mobile, Alabama SelmaGirl1@aol.com

Date: 19 Jan 2004

Time: 12:02:12

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Hi Jim, I recently heard about Jarod and I cannot convey how sorry I am for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. This is a wonderful site and a beautiful tribute to Jarod. I feel like I got to meet him! Thanks for sharing this. Please take care and know I am thinking of you. Michelle Pinsky

Date: 18 Jan 2004

Time: 22:48:05

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Hi Jenny and family, Just wanted to say I am thinking of you and my thoughts and prayers are with you. We too lost our son this past year so I know what you are going through and if you ever want to talk, please feel free. (I am a friend of your cousin Audrey, who also knew my son) Your website is beautiful and so was your little boy. If you should ever need just a hug or want to talk please feel free to call or email. rwegenhart@cinci.rr.com 513-625-3560 Ruth Wegenhart

Date: 18 Jan 2004

Time: 16:11:11

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Cassandra Conway To the family, you are still very much in my family and my prayers. May God bless you and keep you, may He wrap His loving all around you and give you peace.

Date: 18 Jan 2004

Time: 15:36:42

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Jim, my husband Rob and I continue to pray for you and your family. I looked at the photos, what a wonderful memorial to your adorable son. I know you are still hurting and will for a very long time. I am so sorry. Your faith will carry you through this painful time. Melinda E. Knisley, Esq. Croskery Law Offices 6860 Tylersville Rd. Suite 1 Mason, Ohio 45040 (513) 701-5529

Date: 18 Jan 2004

Time: 11:08:09

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Dear Bennett Family, I heard about this accident when it happened, but just recently was made aware that you are neighbors of a friend of mine. She has shared her grief with me and it has caused me to keep you in my prayers and share your story and website with others who are praying for you too. That is what will get you through this. That and the realization that you will see him again one day - to him it will be "the blink of an eye" - to you will seem much longer. We lost a dear friend this summer and when I talk to his wife she always ends our conversation with, "I've made it through another day - and now I'm one day closer to seeing Joe again." He, too died entirely too young. His last words were words of love and thankfulness for his wife and kids. Every day was lived as if it were the last for our friend Joe and that has inspired me to try to do the same. He worked hard, played hard and thanked God everyday to show him something new. He was our minister for many years and helped me through the loss of my parents. He would always tell me, "There's no profit in asking why, honey, - death is the painful part of life. All you can do now is move forward, live life to the fullest which is what your loved ones would want. You'll see them again and they'll be whole." How ironic that even in his absence he helped me get through his death. I know God doesn't cause things like this to happen - He is all light and all love. He will get you through this. He's "the healer of broken hearts." I pray that this brings your family even closer together and that you are able to be there for one another. Your little Jarod blessed my heart just looking at this website. After reading the many messages, I find myself amazed at the kindness and love extended by so many wonderful people. Words fail me in the face of such tragedy. Prayers don't. Please know that you have our family's prayers. The Stuckerts Wilmington, OH.

Date: 17 Jan 2004

Time: 07:58:02

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We miss you Jarod and we love you very much! From all of us who never had an opportunity to meet you. Keep smiling young man - keep smiling!

Date: 16 Jan 2004

Time: 21:30:01

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Date: 16 Jan 2004

Time: 21:28:21

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I am truly sorry for your loss. Nine months ago we lost our 3 year 10 month old grandson Devon in an accident in our driveway. He is now in Heaven with Jarod, along with little Brandi (2) and Luke (4) and Logan...these are a few other children who lost their lives this past year in tragic accidents in Ohio. God is calling some of the little children home before their parents and grandparents...they will be saving places for us and welcome us with open arms and huge smiles when we join them. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that God will wrap His arms around you and carry you through this valley. Remember the good times and hug each other and never forget to tell each other, "I love you!" Renee Freund, Bellville OH

Date: 16 Jan 2004

Time: 16:28:02

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WE ARE TRUELY SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF JAROD. OUR DAUGHER, MICHAELA, SAT NEXT TO HIM IN MRS.ROBINSONS CLASS. WHEN SCHOOL BEGAN THIS YEAR , MICHAELA, WOULD COME HOME AND ASK TO HAVE A CONTAINER WITH A LID. I ASKED HER WHAT IT WAS FOR. SHE SAID IT WAS TO TAKE OUTSIDE AND COLLECT BUGS. EVERYDAY ,UNTIL IT BECAME COLD, SHE WOULD GO OUTSIDE IMMEDIATELY FROM GETTING OFF THE BUS AND COLLECT A NEW CREATURE. SHE ONLY HAD ONE REQUEST ,THAT SHE COULD TAKE IT TO SCHOOL TO SHOW HER FRIENDS. MICHAELA OFTEN TALKS ABOUT JAROD AND HOW SHE LOVED PLAYING SOCCER WITH HIM AT RECESS. JAROD HAD A HUGE IMPACT ON ALOT OF PEOPLE,ONE BEING OUR LITTLE GIRL AND HER NEW LOVE FOR BUGS.OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. THE REDDICKS

Date: 16 Jan 2004

Time: 14:11:53

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My daughter, Mackenzie Burnie, sat next to Jarod in Mrs. Robinsons class. She and I are both having a hard time understanding what happened to Jarod. I am an ED nurse, and have dealt with the death of children many times, but this has been very difficult because of Mackenzie's feelings for him. She sees hin in the sky when there is a beautiful sunset. A few weeks ago there was a beautiful full moon with clouds like ripples on a beach. Mackenzie said, "Thanks Jarod, I wish I could talk to you. She was worried that you guys wouldn't know that Jarod was going to get a good report card. She says she helped him alot, "except for spelling tests, and Mrs. Robinson wouldn't let them." She hopes that he is heaven with some of his family who have died before him and our happy to see and meet him. We had a dog who died about a year ago, and Mackenzie thinks that Sadie and Jarod are playing ball everyday in heaven. I just wanted to let you know Jarod had an impact on a little girls life and she felt like he was her friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm not sure how you pull it together after a loss like this. Be strong for your other children and for each other. Sincerely, Jeannie Burnie

Date: 16 Jan 2004

Time: 14:00:51

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Jim, I am very sorry for the loss of your son. He sure was a cute little boy! I am also from Ohio and I remember hearing about this story on the news. Hang in there!

Date: 16 Jan 2004

Time: 13:49:06

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I can't tell you how very sorry I am that your family has to endure such a tragedy! My prayers and thoughts are with you. I like to think our boys are together now and watching over us together. What a beautiful boy! Tammy Coady (griefnet)

Date: 16 Jan 2004

Time: 11:53:46

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After looking at your website, I can see that Jarod was truly a bright light in your lives, and in the lives of others. May the Lord hold your family in the palm of His hand. My prayers will be with you. - Decatur, AL

Date: 15 Jan 2004

Time: 22:39:11

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I am sorry I didn't know your little boy. I think about your family all the time. I think about Jarod's brother and sister and I am so sorry you all have to go through this. The pictures you share are just wonderful. All smiles with joy. Your web site is perfect, I check it for up dates very often. Thank you for sharing this with every one. I am so sorry for your loss, I feel like I know Jarod and I will never forget him. He has a big place in my heart... Lebanon, Ohio

Date: 15 Jan 2004

Time: 19:29:13

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i am very sorry about your sons death but remember he will always be there for you.... with love to your family ~Jessica

Date: 15 Jan 2004

Time: 00:23:25

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What a handsome little boy. I know this world has to be a warmer, sunnier place because he was here. Thank you for sharing his site with us. Peggy Moore [griefnet]

Date: 14 Jan 2004

Time: 23:15:32

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What a beautiful litte fellow you have been blessed to have had.He is in the presence of angels now and knows how you have adored him. I lost my 17 year old daughter in a head on collision 6 month's ago. She was also a very giving person, loved and tried to please everyone. We are now living every parents worse nightmare. I pray you and your family find comfort in the coming days ahead. It will be a struggle just to get up each morning but as soon as you awake ask God to give you what you need to make it through, He will. Without the prayers of others and his guilding hand there is no way i would have come this far. There are days I wish I too were no longer living. I love what you have created in Jarod's name. A very nice way to keep his memory alive. My prayers are with you, Jan

Date: 14 Jan 2004

Time: 23:05:35

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I was 180 miles up north away visiting my family when I read the article in their local paper. It had brought tears to my eyes. And now visiting your web sites really makes me cry. Your son is precious. I am sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family always. Kathy.

Date: 14 Jan 2004

Time: 22:57:57

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What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful little boy. Jarod has such a beautiful smile and those brown eyes.... Although I do know know your family personally I do know the loss of a child is the worst pain ever. You will all be together again someday!! Please know your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care, Love,Cris-Nicks mom forever and always www.ourbelovednick.com

Date: 14 Jan 2004

Time: 22:57:41

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What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful little boy. Jarod has such a beautiful smile and those brown eyes.... Although I do know know your family personally I do know the loss of a child is the worst pain ever. You will all be together again someday!! Please know your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care, Love,Cris-Nicks mom forever and always www.ourbelovednick.com

Date: 14 Jan 2004

Time: 22:01:21

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I didnt know your son Jarad but after reading your website and looking at all the pictures I feel I have come to know a very precious child that was taken from you. I keep coming back to this website checking things out. I find myself at work looking at his pictures and thinking about how his mother and father are feeling with this loss in their lives. I myself have lost a child and I know that words cant help your pain but always talk about him and keep his memories alive in your heart and Jarad will always be alive. I had to do that myself so even after 17yrs my son is still alive in my heart Leslie

Date: 14 Jan 2004

Time: 18:58:16

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THE LORD GIVETH, THE LORD TAKETH AWAY, JUST 11 DAYS BEFORE JAROD CAME INTO THIS WORLD, MY SPOUSE/BEST FRIEND WENT TO HEAVEN-GOD KNEW WE NEEDED A SPECIAL PERSON TO FILL THE VOID, SO FOR A BRIEF TIME JAROD WAS THAT PERSON. MY HUSBAND LOVED LITTLE CHILDREN AND I AM SURE HE WILL BE PLAYING TRICKS ON JAROD - LIKE TYING A PIECE OF THREAD ON A LOCUST AND FLYING IT AROUND THE ROOM - I THINK JAROD WILL BE ABLE TO COME BACK WITH SOMETHING! JAROD, HE LOVES ICE CREAM - CANNOT GET TO SLEEP WITH A BIG DISH FULL - TAKE CARE OF HIM FOR ME!!!!

Date: 14 Jan 2004

Time: 16:47:34

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I am so sorry for your loss, I never got to meet Jarod personaly but our football teams play againist each other in September. My son is with the Bantam Red Huber Heights Warriors. When we heard about this tragic accident our hearts just ached for you and your family. This is such a beautiful website and I am so glad you shared it with us. May God Bless you and your family. Elizabeth

Date: 14 Jan 2004

Time: 15:33:35

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My heart goes out to your family. I can tell from this web page how special Jarod was and is to you. May God Bless you and give you peace.

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 23:14:25

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Oh my..What a beautiful child Jarod is{I say is because it is plain to see that Jarod lives on in the hearts of all those that knew him. 'm a computer addict and check out every website I can. What a beautiful tribute this site is to Jarod. God has his reasons for the things that happen in this life. One day you will be together again.God doesn't put more on us than we can handle.I will have you in my prayers during this difficult time. May God Bless and Comfort you. Yvonne from Ohio

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 22:57:20

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Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 20:57:06

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i am so sorry your son was a precious child i didnt no him but when i went to your website and looked at the pictures and read the stories i was truely touched i feel like i no him through you all.i had tears looking at the pictures and reading the stories and poems.you are truely blessed he was a wonderful boy.i have lost 4 children so i know how you feel the situations are different i never lost a child by an accident but i do know who it feels to lose a child.the love i see that you all had for your son is beautiful.i will keep you all in my heart and in my prayers may god bless you and keep you.your son left his mark on the world to the people who knew him and the people who didnt he sure left his mark on my heart i no you dont no me but if you ever need anyone to talk to i am here for you my e mail is angel_wings_125@yahoo.com thank you for sharing your son's life with me god bless your friend theresa.

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 15:53:38

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I first read about this tragic accident in the paper a couple days after it happened and even though I never had an opportunity to meet Jarod, visiting this web-site almost makes me feel as if I knew him. He was a cheerful little boy who had a great big smile for every one of his pictures. This web-site is such a wonderful tribute to such a wonderful little boy. Every time I visit the web-site I still cry my eyes out, because as a mother of a 3 year old little boy, I just cannot even begin to imagine losing a child and the grief your family is experiencing. I am sure Jarod is your precious little angel, who is watching over your family from heaven with the same big smile as in all his pictures. I just wanted to let you know that your family is in my families thoughts and prayers. I am truly sorry for your lose. Nicole

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 15:43:10

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Hey Jarod... I just can't stop thinking about you! Every smile I see on a kid's face makes me choke up. It should be your smiling face. When I went on vacation this past weekend with Jason I wished you were there to play in the water with purple life vest on trying to boogie board with the big kids. It is not fair that you are gone. It isn't right. You were too special to ever be forgotten. I'll see you around Little Guy. Love, Chelsea

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 14:11:04

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My name is Ana Resendez and I am the Building Substitute at Louisa Wright Elementary School, where Jarod attended. I have worked directly with Jarod on several occasions when an extra hand was needed or when Jarod's teacher was absent. My memories are of Jarod smiling and loving life. He was a wonderful student to teach and carried a possitive cheerful attitude in all he did. I feel greatful to have known such a person. I will never for get Jarod.

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 14:04:33

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My name is Juanita Feerer, I didn't know Jarod or his family, but I am from Lebanon also and it just broke my heart when I heard what happened to Jarod. I try to come to this web site every chance I get to see what other people have to say. Sometimes I just want to start crying, but when I see his pictures, it just puts a smile on my face. You will be in my prayers and thoughts, God bless you and your family.

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 12:00:53

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My name is Jason Morgan... a Cincinnati Ski Club member. I'm only here to say that the thoughts and prayers of my family are with you and your loved ones as you go through this hard time. While no parent could ever understand the pain of losing a child without experienceing it, I offer my heart-felt sympathy. We have experienced the loss of a close friends child a year ago and a recent tragic accident with my father a week ago. Never have I known the power of the prayers spoken beneath the breath of as many as possible until now... and I promise to offer mine each night. Yours in Spirit, Jason, Susan and Hannah.

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 11:24:12

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i knew jarod's cousin. i didnt hear about this story until today.I am really and truly sorry that anyone had to lose someone.i have lost many important people in my life and i have a tiny feeling of what you all and the rest of the family is going through. Holly

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 11:12:28

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I am so very sorry for the loss of your son!! I didn't know Jarod or his family, but after visiting this site I feel that I do. I have a son the same age as Jarod and I just can't imagine how hard it would be to loose him. When I first heard what happened to Jarod and saw this site I cried my eyes out. I have and will continue to keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers!! May God Bless and watch over your family. Kristi

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 11:03:05

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Jarod,i love you so much and i don't understand why this happened or why and i don't think i ever will! you really were everyones sunshine you always made us smile and you'll be in our hearts forever your a big loss to this familyit doesn't feel the same without you but we will all be together someday in heaven and be happy again. love you always your cousin PAIGE

Date: 13 Jan 2004

Time: 11:01:27

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Were sorry for your loss. May God bless and be with you, Your family is in our prayers. Dusty,& Dale.

Date: 12 Jan 2004

Time: 18:59:28

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Boy, this is such a hard thing to talk about still. Jarod's mommy was my stepdaughter for a long time. I watched Jarod,Jillian and Jacob this past summer for Jenny and Jim while Jenny attended school. What a sweet and lovable little guy Jarod was. He wanted to learn how to play darts and said he was going to get so good at it that he would even be able to beat all of us. And let me tell you, he really did get pretty good. I had just found out that his Dad had got him a dart board for Christmas. That just broke my heart. I know that I'm not their biological "Grandma" but in every sense I am.. If I could take any of their hurt and tears I would collect it all and put it on me. I love you, Jenny!!!!!!! Sandy

Date: 12 Jan 2004

Time: 17:23:16

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dear the bennetts- when i first heard your story i was touched. i have prayed everynite. i will continue to keep the family in my prayers. he was a cute kid and im sure a very good one. just remember at such times we all need to remain strong. i am here and i am prayin 4 each and everyone of you god bless

Date: 12 Jan 2004

Time: 16:09:23

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I read the article in the Commonwealth Journal on Sunday and my heart truly goes out to your family. I am a young mother of a 3 year old who I can't imagine life without. I also lost my 16 year old brother,Ricky due to head injuries that occured from a car accident in February, 2003 and know the pain and heartache you are feeling. My little brother was my life for so many years and knowing I have to go on without him is still hard to bring to light. From viewing your site, I know you will carry Jarod's memory on for years to come and I am sure Jarod is very proud of what he sees when looking down from heaven. God Bless your family and if I can ever be of any assitance feel free to notify me at kfraley@centertech.com. Kristi- Science Hill, KY

Date: 12 Jan 2004

Time: 15:56:55

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So sorry for the loss of Jarod. Jarod is a very handsome little boy. I also lost a son. My son was 16 years old. I will keep you rfamily in my prayers!! Sherry Landrum

Date: 12 Jan 2004

Time: 13:48:04

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After reading this story in the Somerset Commonwealth Journal, my heart and prayers went out to you. I am a mother of a 3 year old boy, who I almost lost on New Years Eve to the flu. He had stopped breathing after a high fever induced a seizure. As I fell to the floor to do CPR, Iwas praying out loud...He took a breath. As I sat in the floor with this little blond haired, blue eyed boy, I wanted him to know that Mommy was there as another seizure followed. God spared my angel, but we must remember that he gives them to us and he takes them when he is ready and they will be special little angels. I will continue to pray for your family. Claudette Somerset, KY

Date: 12 Jan 2004

Time: 12:30:23

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God has a plan for you. He will provide all your needs. Keep looking ahead and don't look back. There is more great things to come. My heart goes out to all of you. You will see him again if you keep on following God. Have a heart of compassion and not blame. I am truly sorry! Love you all!

Date: 12 Jan 2004

Time: 10:33:44

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Although I don't know your family, my heart still grieves for you. Like so many others, I can't imagine losing one of my children or grandchidren. But I do know that we have a God who loves us and comforts us in times such as this. Jarod was, and still is, a beautiful angel. Isn't it comforting to know that someday you will see him again!!

Date: 11 Jan 2004

Time: 21:13:48

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I am from Somerset, Kentucky and our local newspaper printed the story today about Jarod's tragic death. I wanted to visit your website to learn more about your son and brother. Jarod was a beautiful little boy and I kept thinking as I looked at the photographs --- just how much life and adventure got packed into his short little life. Football, soccer, snow skiing, boating, fun at the beach, zoos, amusement parks, I could go on and on. So many beautiful memories for you to treasure. I can't begin to imagine the pain you must be feeling. I think your website is a beautiful tribute to a beautiful little boy. Thank you for sharing his life with us. God bless you...Beverly Withers

Date: 11 Jan 2004

Time: 20:34:18

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JESUS NEEDED A ROSE FOR HIS GARDEN AND NOW THAT GARDEN IS BRIGHTER THAN EVER YOUR SON DIDNT DIE HE WAS CALLED HOME WHAT A BLESSED HOME COMING!!

Date: 11 Jan 2004

Time: 18:39:01

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I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious son. My thoughts and prayers are with you all, Shannon

Date: 11 Jan 2004

Time: 12:54:50

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To Jarod... If a kiss was a raindrop, I'd send you showers. If hugs were a second, I'd send you hours. If smiles were water, I'd send you the sea. If love was a person, I'd send you me.

Date: 11 Jan 2004

Time: 12:53:07

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I did have the opportunity of knowing Jarod, but our paths only crossed a few times. Still, I know that everything said on this site is true. His enthusiasm was well beyond mine about reading me a new book he had, or looking for bugs outside. Jarod will be missed, but his memory will stay with everyone. My deepest sympathies are with Jenny, Jim, Jillian and Jake. God Bless. "I am ready to meet my Maker. Whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter."

Date: 11 Jan 2004

Time: 10:29:14

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This is a wonderful web site and I love the poems. I just couldnt image losing one of my children. But as the one poem says you dont know what tomorrow holds. I am so sorry that you lost your son in such a terrible accident. I know that is was very hard around the holidays for you and it will never get any easier I dont think I lost my only brother 2 years ago this April and it is still very hard I still wait on his phone calls.

Date: 10 Jan 2004

Time: 20:01:13

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I have emailed you before and continue to visit your site. Like many people, I remember you at least once a day in my prayers, but most days quite a few times. I can not begin to imagine the pain you are feeling, but I can the love. I have a son the same age as Jarod. Like your family we take lots of pictures. The best part about your pictures of Jarod is how genuine his smile is. (Our son smiles but it is not so natural -- its one of those smiles that you tell the photographer don't say smile just make him laugh) It never looks like Jarod was posing for the picture or being asked to smile. The little guy was just smiling all the time. He was truly a gift. Remember the stars in the sky are shining a little brighter with that wonderful smile shining down on from heaven. -- Diane

Date: 10 Jan 2004

Time: 17:37:10

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Jarod.....Ilove you so much....I just wanted to say what a beautiful site this is!If jarod was here to see it i know he woudl be So over joyed! I just wanted to say that....I miss him SO much......i love you jarod.....from jacquelyn

Date: 10 Jan 2004

Time: 00:27:27

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Jenny, Jim, Jillian, & Jacob ... We just want to say that, though your loss is greatest of all, our whole family has lost something very special - one of its brightest stars. There is another void in the family now that can never be filled and that void is felt throughout the family. How blessed we are though to have such a beautiful loving soul watching over us and giving us all even more to go to Heaven for than we already had. (Jenny, I am sure that his "Great-aunt Lene" will give him lots of hugs for you until you are together again.) Our love, Your cousins, Margie, Dale, DJ & Dusty

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 21:39:15

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Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 21:29:12

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I found this website through the Martha Pullen message board. What a beautiful tribute to such a precious little boy. I, too, lost my son last year (he was 23). He always wanted a little brother--I pray that he and Jarod find each other in Heaven--we will join them one day. I will keep you all in my prayers. Hugs, Sherry

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 20:01:42

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Cried my eyes out and can hardly see to type you a message. Shirley Boulton-Hall, Calgary Canada

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 18:36:52

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Jarod, I love you so much and i wish this never happend to you its hard to believe i am stuck in a world half and half one side real the other a dream i feel as if you are going to walk into the door one day but then i remember you ... at the funeral and visitations....its soo hard then i thik of you and me and jake laughing and it feels like it all happend yesterday.... and it feels as if the next day you are going to walk in and hug me but even though it might be hard to see you fully i can still talk to you and hear you in my prayers and even sometimes i can feel you watching me , like you are right there in the room with me.I love you and i will keep praying to hear you ! Love Your sister *Jillian Elizabeth Bennett*

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 18:19:17

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I was thinking this afternoon of Jarod and your family. The website shows how much Jarod was loved and the love that Jarod gave was incredible! I wish there was something more I could do. I pray everyday for your family. I raise my daughter Haley alone her Dad passed away when she was 2, I know it is difficult, but I think losing a child would be the hardest thing a parent would have to endure. The Website is a beautiful tribute to your son and I see such happy times in all these photos. My prayers are for Jacob & Jillian too. We will continue to pray for your family as I know so many people are doing. God Bless! Susan & Haley from Kettering Ohio

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 13:00:25

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Jarod,Baby,you are and always will be my sunshine, my happiness. I love you more than all the words that I could ever write here. Keep smiling baby-we'll all be together again in heaven. I Love you, Mommy

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 12:18:16

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p.s. He was a beautiful little boy. His face is still beaming and smiling in heaven. Amanda

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 12:15:42

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Im really sorry for your loss of your son. It must be tough. I read the story hundreds of times in the newspaper. I never knew him but in a way it felt like I did (knew him) I pray for you guys every night ,that God will bless you. It's tough to loose something but nothing is more tough than losing a child. I will continue to pray for you and your family. You need prayer more than anthing right now and also peace and comfort. I'm glad you made this sight so that people can also share the happy memories you had with Jared. God Bless, Amanda

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 11:17:05

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This is a beautiful website and tribute to a darling young man. I visited here from GriefNet. I, too, have lost a son and know the pain this family is going thru. May God be with you all and know that our home here is only temporary and we will be united with our children again. This time forever. With Love, Cindy William's mom

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 10:31:47

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We just wanted you to know that your family remains in our thoughts and prayers. We visit the site often and it continues to be an emotional experience. We are sorry for your loss and are always here if there is anything you need. Doug & Karen Good

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 09:29:23

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I did not know Jarod, although after a number of times of being on his website I feel as if I do and I sure wish that I had the blessed opportunity of knowing such a sweet and full of life little boy! All I can say is that I am deeply deeply sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to all of his family and friends and you have all been in my thoughts and prayers! What a beautiful child with an enormous heart and an even bigger love for life! God Bless You All.... Christa

Date: 09 Jan 2004

Time: 08:47:31

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We love you and miss you so so much. I hope you are having fun. Love Dad